"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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asa_don

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some of the advice i read is terrible, girls reject guys, the posters want the guys to "keep trying", why? they got rejected, that means she isn't attracted to him.

rejection is the spurning of a person's affections

when she is rejecting your kiss or sexual advances, she is not interested, she doesn't find you attractive enough.

all the betas say that means nothing, try again, they make excuses to why she didn't kiss or bang you.

see it for the truth man, she doesn't want you, i think a lot of these guy don't want to accept that fact, they waste their time on a girl who doesn't have those same feelings.

if she wanted you, her tongue would be down your throat, your d!ck would be in her pvssy, she won't tell you "no', or give you excuses to why she can't, it would be happening.

if you get rejected, move on, you only make it worse when you keep trying.

don't be a beta looking for a silver lining to a dead end.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The problem is that betas come here looking for advice from alphas. But we as humans like hearing what we want. So when another beta tell them what they want to hear they ignore all the advice from people who've been through this and know that girls will do anything for who they like.
 

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it's the truth.

theres a difference btw a girl playing coy and flat out, not liking a guy.

its funny how much and for how long, we’ve all heard kick the pedestal out from under her, but the rate of guys that ACTAULLY develop that indifference towards women, is painfully low. they stay betas, cuckolds, etc.

that pitiful rate equals the exact reason why a few guys bang most of the chicks.

i remember rollo saying in an article of his "eventually you gotta come out of the abyss" - that abyss, of oneitis betas and guys pretending their wifes arent getting raw dogged by an alpha, is going to start being a popular place in the next 10, 20 years.
 
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Wolverine I'm pretty sure its a popular place right now. I know I was a beta when I joined this forum and I'm not gonna lie I'm not a full don Juan either. But ill be damned if I'm gonna allow a woman to waste me time though.
 

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RabidWolverine said:
it's the truth.

theres a difference btw a girl playing coy and flat out, not liking a guy.

Thundernuts said:
Wolverine I'm pretty sure its a popular place right now. I know I was a beta when I joined this forum and I'm not gonna lie I'm not a full don Juan either. But ill be damned if I'm gonna allow a woman to waste me time though.
exactly, its easy to see these girls don't like these guys, they keep asking for more dates from them to get rejected, that goes for kisses and sex too.

they drag it on forever ignoring good advice until finally they realize nothing is going to happen.

it doesn't matter how much time you put in, what you assume she is really feeling, if she isnt reciprocating at all, she isnt interested

if you aint getting what you want, get it from someone else who will :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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