"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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betas always look for a silver lining to a dead end

asa_don

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some of the advice i read is terrible, girls reject guys, the posters want the guys to "keep trying", why? they got rejected, that means she isn't attracted to him.

rejection is the spurning of a person's affections

when she is rejecting your kiss or sexual advances, she is not interested, she doesn't find you attractive enough.

all the betas say that means nothing, try again, they make excuses to why she didn't kiss or bang you.

see it for the truth man, she doesn't want you, i think a lot of these guy don't want to accept that fact, they waste their time on a girl who doesn't have those same feelings.

if she wanted you, her tongue would be down your throat, your d!ck would be in her pvssy, she won't tell you "no', or give you excuses to why she can't, it would be happening.

if you get rejected, move on, you only make it worse when you keep trying.

don't be a beta looking for a silver lining to a dead end.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The problem is that betas come here looking for advice from alphas. But we as humans like hearing what we want. So when another beta tell them what they want to hear they ignore all the advice from people who've been through this and know that girls will do anything for who they like.
 

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it's the truth.

theres a difference btw a girl playing coy and flat out, not liking a guy.

its funny how much and for how long, we’ve all heard kick the pedestal out from under her, but the rate of guys that ACTAULLY develop that indifference towards women, is painfully low. they stay betas, cuckolds, etc.

that pitiful rate equals the exact reason why a few guys bang most of the chicks.

i remember rollo saying in an article of his "eventually you gotta come out of the abyss" - that abyss, of oneitis betas and guys pretending their wifes arent getting raw dogged by an alpha, is going to start being a popular place in the next 10, 20 years.
 
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Wolverine I'm pretty sure its a popular place right now. I know I was a beta when I joined this forum and I'm not gonna lie I'm not a full don Juan either. But ill be damned if I'm gonna allow a woman to waste me time though.
 

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RabidWolverine said:
it's the truth.

theres a difference btw a girl playing coy and flat out, not liking a guy.

Thundernuts said:
Wolverine I'm pretty sure its a popular place right now. I know I was a beta when I joined this forum and I'm not gonna lie I'm not a full don Juan either. But ill be damned if I'm gonna allow a woman to waste me time though.
exactly, its easy to see these girls don't like these guys, they keep asking for more dates from them to get rejected, that goes for kisses and sex too.

they drag it on forever ignoring good advice until finally they realize nothing is going to happen.

it doesn't matter how much time you put in, what you assume she is really feeling, if she isnt reciprocating at all, she isnt interested

if you aint getting what you want, get it from someone else who will :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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