Also I'm not gay lol.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Betabuxxing women, gold diggers. How to counter them with the business I own?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Just hire some hot teenage Saturday girls for the business. Get them to list products for you or something. Maybe being the 'boss' will get you some extra attraction and you can bang them and forget about OLD as you'll be banging girls twice as hot and half their age!!?
If I open my second location its close to where my cousin lives. Shes 25 and has a lot of high end hb friends who are bartenders and that. Party type. I'd see if I could hire one of them to work a day a week since it's a 50 mile drive from me.
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The problem, as stated before by others, is not with the gold diggers.
It's about how you see your business.
It amazes me how you're not able to sell yourself while working in sales.
Being vague is better as a rule of thumb.
Also, most women ask about your job on the first date because it defines most people today. It's another topic to talk about, no big fuss. I mean they ask me what I do, I state it and they're like "Ohh, ok. Can I see your d1ck now?" Or some random stuff like that.
So here it goes: They don't really care about it. Unless you're a lion tamer or a Saudi Arabian prince, no one cares about that. If you're a fun guy/good company, they just don't care, its' that simple.
But if they don't feel attraction/feel you're insecure about it, they will find negatives about it.
You're a doctor, so you have no spare time. You're an accountant, so you're boring. You're a rich NBA player, you travel too much.
Do you understand me? Really think about it. Really.
If you think about what I said and work on it, no woman will raise an eyebrow again. Never again.
Think about it instead of raising your posts count and finding an excuse/explanation for everything.
Wish you the best!
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It's about how you see your business.
It amazes me how you're not able to sell yourself while working in sales.
Being vague is better as a rule of thumb.
Also, most women ask about your job on the first date because it defines most people today. It's another topic to talk about, no big fuss. I mean they ask me what I do, I state it and they're like "Ohh, ok. Can I see your d1ck now?" Or some random stuff like that.
So here it goes: They don't really care about it. Unless you're a lion tamer or a Saudi Arabian prince, no one cares about that. If you're a fun guy/good company, they just don't care, its' that simple.
But if they don't feel attraction/feel you're insecure about it, they will find negatives about it.
You're a doctor, so you have no spare time. You're an accountant, so you're boring. You're a rich NBA player, you travel too much.
Do you understand me? Really think about it. Really.
If you think about what I said and work on it, no woman will raise an eyebrow again. Never again.
Think about it instead of raising your posts count and finding an excuse/explanation for everything.
Wish you the best!
A.
I just lie to girls personally. My job is just lowpaid monkey work and i'm kinda old so it probably looks bad, so I always tell them i'm a marketing executive 'cos it sounds kinda cool (I basically steal my best friends 'life'/job description lol. He thinks it's hilarious)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.