beta friends are scum... smh

[Jair213]

Yesterday I found out as to why one of my best friends didn't end up giving me a job opportunity at his workplace when he could have easily given me a job there.

Last night I was talking to a mutual friend of ours and he straight up told me. ''Dude, George didn't want to give you the job because he thinks your an azzhoe to woman''

This work place is mostly woman, 90%woman 10%men.

George is a complete AFC chump, beta.

Our mutual friend proceeded to tell me. ''He said you were not fit for the job because of this''

There's being a few times that I have visited him to his job and had a great time socializing with all the chicks there. They even asked him a couple of times when was I going again.

It's weird because as I talked to the chicks he would give me this ''wtf are you doing look''

But before all of this had happened. I spoke to him about game, showed him the DJ Bible, Rollo Tomassi Rational Male, etc.. And he refused to unplug from the beta matrix.

Some men will be chumps there whole life's I guess.

 

[TheCWord]

a few times that I have visited him to his job and had a great time socializing with all the chicks there.

Define socializing. Based on the looks you said he was giving you, is it safe to assume you were flirting, doing DJ kind of stuff?

Because at a job, it has to only be about the job. If you have a reputation as being a guy that is always working girls, I can see how maybe you wouldn't be a great fit for a predominantly female workplace.

I don't know you of course, so maybe when you're at work you're good about keeping it strictly professional. But if he's already seen you interact with his co-workers a certain way, all he's going to do is picture you doing that while at work. That can cause problems and since he vouched for you, it would fall on him.

 

[marmel75]

^^^^^This.

Plus I'm sure he also is jealous of your skills and the woman's interest since he probably kisses their asses all day long...the fact the woman are asking about you when you leave probably makes it worse

 

[Jair213]

This guy knows me really well. I was not flirting with the women there just casual conversation and having a few laughs. I did do some kino on one of them. I was fixing up her hair playfully cuz it looked messy haha

And he knows I won't mess around in the workplace with women due to the fact that he wanted to start dating one of the chicks there and i talked him out of it as to why that doesn't end up well.

 

[Jair213]

^^^^^This.

Plus I'm sure he also is jealous of your skills and the woman's interest since he probably kisses their asses all day long...the fact the woman are asking about you when you leave probably makes it worse

I suspected the same but man I wish this dude could drop the beta mindset.. It's frustrating when some of your beta friends call you claiming to have gf problems and watever you tell them is blocked by there oneitis. Smh

 

[handle]

Your friend didn't hook you up with a job. Get over it. I had a friend ask me to put in a good word once and I couldn't do it, because it was my reputation on the line and the guy didn't seem like a good fit.

 

[Jair213]

Your friend didn't hook you up with a job. Get over it. I had a friend ask me to put in a good word once and I couldn't do it, because it was my reputation on the line and the guy didn't seem like a good fit.

I could careless about the job.

Watt struck a cord was that he didn't gave me the job due to his betaness.

 

[handle]

*You couldn't care less.

In a professional environment there's going to be loads of people like George. Your boss may be like George. So you should be able to interact in a way that doesn't leave a bad taste in that person's mouth.

Unfortunately I have no way of knowing how you actually come across, but consider that maybe you may lack a little social finesse.

On another note, I think it's generally agreed that shoving this material in people's faces tends to not go over well. So you shouldn't be surprised.

 

[VladPatton]

That's why you should never talk about what we preach here unless the guy asks you for help. This red pill business in not for everyone. It will distort people's view of you, so do yourself a favor and keep the red pill mentality under your hat. It sucks, but it's the way it is.

 

[zekko]

If you were using kino and maybe even running @sshole game while visiting his workplace, I could see why he might be hesitant to hire you. Especially in a place that is mostly women. You can get slapped with a sexual harassment charge just for simple touching.

 

[Jair213]

That's why you should never talk about what we preach here unless the guy asks you for help. This red pill business in not for everyone. It will distort people's view of you, so do yourself a favor and keep the red pill mentality under your hat. It sucks, but it's the way it is.

He did ask me for help and advice when he was going through a break up with his ex gf. That's when I layed down all of this on him lol guess I'll be keeping all this stuff to my self from now on

 

[sylvester the cat]

there's stuff i believe that i wouldn't even tell you guys for fear of how you'd react.

i would never tell anyone outside of this forum what we talk about. if outsiders want to know let them find out for themselves.

 

[LondonTowers]

I feel finding the Red Pill is a very personal journey that a man comes to by himself.. even then he will cough and choke before it goes down. I would not recommend preaching this to anyone. Sometime you will find a guy who may be ready, but you drip feed him in small doses that are palatable for his ego defence. When you immerse yourself with this thinking online and are talking on forums like this you can easily forget how niche this stuff is

 

[Between_The_Lines]

This (telling 'outsiders' about red pill philosophy) probably deserves a thread of it's own. In my view, a guy is more likely to be open minded about this kind of stuff if he sees for himself how successful you are in the field (attributing your success to your understanding of the game) On a semi-related note, try explaining what "low hanging fruit" is to a feminist sometime - like dropping a brick of baking soda into a cooler filled with vinegar.

 

[Jair213]

This (telling 'outsiders' about red pill philosophy) probably deserves a thread of it's own. In my view, a guy is more likely to be open minded about this kind of stuff if he sees for himself how successful you are in the field (attributing your success to your understanding of the game) On a semi-related note, try explaining what "low hanging fruit" is to a feminist sometime - like dropping a brick of baking soda into a cooler filled with vinegar.

the problem is most guys dont want to face reality man, its hard for them to unplugg from something they have believed there whole lifes its not easy it wasnt easy for me neither...

 

[El Payaso]

He's the same type of guy that runs for political office and panders to women.

 

[hudpes]

i would never tell anyone outside of this forum what we talk about. if outsiders want to know let them find out for themselves.

If you tell them or not, it doesn't really matter. They can only change when they want to and are ready.

OP, as for your friend I would say this is quite a bump in the friendship. If he gave you weird looks when you talked to women there, he must have thought you're flirting with them, and he felt a pang of jealousy, and when he considered having you working there he felt like you would destroy the lovely illusion of him being in an alpha position and desirable due to scarcity of men. Since you would cast a big shadow on him because of your charm and way with women, he would have to compete for affection of the women there, which he does not have to do now. And if you yourself possibly began dating one of those women, having previously advised him against dating them he would see that as betrayal. He might have envisioned all that and more so he decided he prefers to keep his current position by not having you around.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I spoke to him about game, showed him the DJ Bible, Rollo Tomassi Rational Male, etc.. And he refused to unplug from the beta matrix.


As you, I and many others know, it takes massive balls of steel and a concerted effort to unplug and become the man you were destined to be. A lot of people, men and women, simply are not up to the challenge and probably never will be. Ignorance is bliss.

As for your mate, he doesn't really sound like a best mate. He should know you well enough to trust you to be professional in a place of work (that's if you are). It also doesn't sound like you really share ideologies of world view.

Sometimes just best to naturally distance yourself from those that aren't really contributing to your existence.