"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Beta Chump is mad because his current gf still had ex bf tingles

Maximummax

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This is from a yahoo column dear abby

DEAR ABBY: My girlfriend has been divorced for two years. She shares custody of her two girls, ages 5 and 6, with her ex. She wants to remain friends with him for the sake of the girls. I have supported her friendly relationship with him despite the repeated lies he tells and the deceptive stories he makes up in an attempt to break us up.


Recently, he decided he wants to take his daughters away for a long weekend. He invited my girlfriend to come along and plans to pay for everything, including a hotel room with two beds they will share. I have said repeatedly that this vacation and the arrangements are a deal breaker for me. She assures me that her intent is to be with her daughters and she has no desire for intimacy with her ex. She refuses to change her mind and says I need to trust her. The fact is, I don't trust HIM based on his actions and many issues between them in the past.

Am I paranoid or obsessing over this? I'd appreciate your input. -- UNEASY DOWN SOUTH


the above reason is a good example why you should not date single mothers.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chicks without kids try to pull the same sh1t with their exes. "Oh, we're still friends. You just need to trust me. There's no attraction between us anymore..."
 

BetterCallSaul

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No, the correct answer is he doesn't trust HER. Period. I love that line of guilt all women use, "He's just a friend, I feel nothing for him anymore", "I'm just going to be with the kids".

F*cking hell with women. I tell you, I almost hate to admit it, but more and more as each year goes by I see the wisdom of how muslim men treat their women in the middle east.
 

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Well, true avoiding single mothers is key. But this woman has no respect for her BF either. She thinks it acceptable to go on a "family trip" with her ex husband while the current BF sits there with his d*ck in his hand. I hope he stands by his dealbreaker and dumps her for this. If not, she's really got his balls.
 
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