"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Beta Chump is mad because his current gf still had ex bf tingles

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This is from a yahoo column dear abby

DEAR ABBY: My girlfriend has been divorced for two years. She shares custody of her two girls, ages 5 and 6, with her ex. She wants to remain friends with him for the sake of the girls. I have supported her friendly relationship with him despite the repeated lies he tells and the deceptive stories he makes up in an attempt to break us up.


Recently, he decided he wants to take his daughters away for a long weekend. He invited my girlfriend to come along and plans to pay for everything, including a hotel room with two beds they will share. I have said repeatedly that this vacation and the arrangements are a deal breaker for me. She assures me that her intent is to be with her daughters and she has no desire for intimacy with her ex. She refuses to change her mind and says I need to trust her. The fact is, I don't trust HIM based on his actions and many issues between them in the past.

Am I paranoid or obsessing over this? I'd appreciate your input. -- UNEASY DOWN SOUTH


the above reason is a good example why you should not date single mothers.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chicks without kids try to pull the same sh1t with their exes. "Oh, we're still friends. You just need to trust me. There's no attraction between us anymore..."
 
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No, the correct answer is he doesn't trust HER. Period. I love that line of guilt all women use, "He's just a friend, I feel nothing for him anymore", "I'm just going to be with the kids".

F*cking hell with women. I tell you, I almost hate to admit it, but more and more as each year goes by I see the wisdom of how muslim men treat their women in the middle east.
 
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Well, true avoiding single mothers is key. But this woman has no respect for her BF either. She thinks it acceptable to go on a "family trip" with her ex husband while the current BF sits there with his d*ck in his hand. I hope he stands by his dealbreaker and dumps her for this. If not, she's really got his balls.
 
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