"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best "What do you do for fun" response?

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I hate that damn question, "What do you like to do for fun?" Its something I ask girls but inevitably, I always get asked that in return. The truth is, nothing. I don't do things for fun: I go to work, I enjoy making money, I like working out, getting drunk, and banging b1tches. To appear refined, I can't really say those things, at least not in that form.

So, what are your optimal response? Something witty/funny/****y is always good. Any thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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“Hmmm, I like working out, going out with friends, classic rock, sex on the beach, and a good cry every Monday night, cause mondays suck”.


“I just got into underwater basket weaving”

“I’ve just recently gotten into make amateur fireworks display


Make **** up, amuse yourself
 

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“Hmmm, I like working out, going out with friends, classic rock, sex on the beach, and a good cry every Monday night, cause mondays suck”.


“I just got into underwater basket weaving”

“I’ve just recently gotten into make amateur fireworks display


Make **** up, amuse yourself
LOL
 

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JIMO

Responding with sarcastic/witty answers 'ONLY' indicate to people that you aren't really interested in themthem get to know you/who you are. That indirectly communicates 'hook up'.

Humor is GREAT when it comes to meeting someone but be sure to follow up the "training for the monkey bar Olympics" comment with an "lol, and in my spare time I like to ...." Insert real activity here - esp if you are interested in finding "someone"
 
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Here are some I've actually used........and they always bust out laughing.

"I flirt with cute girls on Tinder and never go out with them!"

"I practice gymnastic routines in my sex swing. Someday I plan to compete in the Sex Olympics"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm very interested in what accomplished DJ's do about this.

I have read several places that women want a mystery and a challenge and you go about that by not telling her hardly anything about yourself, choosing instead to respond with a funny BS answer and then change the subject back to her. Once she knows everything about you, she loses interest. They need to peel back the layers of the onion very slowly. I've felt doing that would make you look shady, but then, I'm a guy so I think and act differently than women.
 

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Will make stuff up too, and drop in that I like art, drinking and festivals/dancing.

I like to just respond "What fun/can we do together?"

Then switch it to them. You don't have to come across as some super active entertainer. You also don't need to jump through hoops like it's an interview, control the situation.
 

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I do computer science stuff for fun, but I never mention that because the pussies get dry when you say that.

I will usually say something cooler like I play the piano, make music in my computer or go swim in waterfalls.
This is all true, but I dont do it that much.

Just make sure you only mention the "cool" stuff you do for fun. Dont focus the talk on the nerd stuff you do for fun. You like programming, fixing cars and sports ? Yeah, cool, but girls dont give a damn

Edit: one tip: if any of you play the piano, invite her to listen to you play in your house. This works 100%. They get all emotional and happy
 

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"I like to study. Learning is fun. I know...... I'm a big nerd. Stick around, and I'll be able to read you like a book!;)"
 

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‘I have many varied and exciting interests, but it usually relates to who is with me at the time. When do you want to have some fun?’
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Give women orgasms"
 
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