"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best ways to flirt

What was your best flirting move?

  • Smiling, eye contact, touching hands

    Votes: 7 30.4%
  • Touching... (Hips, hair, legs, etc)

    Votes: 8 34.8%
  • Smooching

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Conversations

    Votes: 8 34.8%

  • Total voters
    23

tactic

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Tell us your best flirt move on a chick.
For me, it was a simple "move"... smiling.

What about you?

By the way, flirting; I also mean by conversation, touching (their hair, hips, butt, etc), and smooching them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SDBmania

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I guess smiling, but I never seem to get anywhere.
 

DankNuggs

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This has to be the dumbest thing i've ever read


"I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul."
 

loukane

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My Best Move

I make believe I'm this boy-genius and an executive with my own company. You gotta fake it till you make it and I'm not looking for a long term relationship. Just want to get some poontang.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tango-Kid

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Which one is more important in taking steps, the right leg or the left leg?

My best move when flirting with a girl is to seduce her.
 
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