NotaNewbie
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If you're hanging with a hot girl all day and guys have been complimenting her the whole time what could you say to bring her down a notch so she dont become a stuck up bit<h?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Best ways to bring HBs down a notch?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Don't give into what she expects you to do (aka don't be those other guys). That always brought them down a notch for me. Once the girl realizes your interested, but not impressed... the ego tends to disappear/diminish.
DonGorgon
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You cant bring her down cause there will be 10 other dudes to boost her back up...LOL males cant win this game.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Rookies. Instead of bringing her down, why dont you start elevating your status (today).
Miguel
Don Juan
Chears, true to that Oak, you my friends are the prize - She is not. She should throw some compliments at you NotaNewbie to get into your pants.
Well thats the idea.
Anyways, display some higher value, try joking with her, occasionally telling her about this cute girl you met the other day who tried to rape you, or something that shows that it's not her thats the value in your relationship, it's you. Heck, better yet get a pivot or something, a girl you know to walk up in front of her and start hitting on you.
underhanded. But clever.
Well thats the idea.
Anyways, display some higher value, try joking with her, occasionally telling her about this cute girl you met the other day who tried to rape you, or something that shows that it's not her thats the value in your relationship, it's you. Heck, better yet get a pivot or something, a girl you know to walk up in front of her and start hitting on you.
underhanded. But clever.
This is classic PUA BS but to an exent because these "negs" will work temporarily since they are masking something that is lacking. To be honest you shouldn't feel the need to bring ANYONE down. I think a couple of jokes at another person's expense aren't so bad but if you constantly feel that you should bring everyone down to a "level" than I think you have deeper issues you need to work on because it signals a huge insecurity on your part. Girls or people in general aren't as stupid as you might think so if you feel your being different by making fun of her trust me your not being special.
Now on the other hand if she STARTS trying any of that crap with you then of course you can retaliate back playfully to signify you have a solid back-bone IF you have one.
You can always try a different approach for example...
"...how many times do you get hit on a day...!?.."
Her:- blah blah!!
"...oh dang you beat my record!!!.." or "...wow that's almost as close to MY record...!!!"
or
"...man you sure have a lot of admirers...!!"
Her:- blah blah blaaaaah!!!
"...you must love the attention...!!!"
Her:- *qualifying herself*...blah blaaaah blaaaah!!!!
So "negging" is not the only way bruh!!!. Expand your mind & be creative!.
Now on the other hand if she STARTS trying any of that crap with you then of course you can retaliate back playfully to signify you have a solid back-bone IF you have one.
You can always try a different approach for example..."...how many times do you get hit on a day...!?.."
Her:- blah blah!!
"...oh dang you beat my record!!!.." or "...wow that's almost as close to MY record...!!!"
or
"...man you sure have a lot of admirers...!!"
Her:- blah blah blaaaaah!!!
"...you must love the attention...!!!"
Her:- *qualifying herself*...blah blaaaah blaaaah!!!!
So "negging" is not the only way bruh!!!. Expand your mind & be creative!.
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
Best dam quote yet oakraiderz2
This one sentence (quote) say's all the right things... very powerful.... everyone should read it.... memorize it.... be reminded of it.... and understand it's worth.
I was going to rep you but it says I have to spread it around.
LoneSilver
This one sentence (quote) say's all the right things... very powerful.... everyone should read it.... memorize it.... be reminded of it.... and understand it's worth.
I was going to rep you but it says I have to spread it around.
LoneSilver
oakraiderz2 said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DonGorgon
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YEH And that sort or stupid statement is exactly why you will never be a mod...lolDJVladdy said:
Now go ban yourself. :
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Negging is not the only way, but it does work. Playful negs (not direct insults) can be very useful, although it's not some necessity (always different means to one end).
You can come at it from a different angle and laugh at and neg the chumps who idolise her. You'll DHV and you will gain some common ground with her too. Then you can squeeze yourself onto her pedestal alongside her and you can both look down on these guys together....
If that don't work, you can try throwing acid in the *****es face......
If that don't work, you can try throwing acid in the *****es face......