NotaNewbie
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If you're hanging with a hot girl all day and guys have been complimenting her the whole time what could you say to bring her down a notch so she dont become a stuck up bit<h?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Best ways to bring HBs down a notch?
- Thread starter NotaNewbie
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Don't give into what she expects you to do (aka don't be those other guys). That always brought them down a notch for me. Once the girl realizes your interested, but not impressed... the ego tends to disappear/diminish.
DonGorgon
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You cant bring her down cause there will be 10 other dudes to boost her back up...LOL males cant win this game.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Rookies. Instead of bringing her down, why dont you start elevating your status (today).
Miguel
Don Juan
Chears, true to that Oak, you my friends are the prize - She is not. She should throw some compliments at you NotaNewbie to get into your pants.
Well thats the idea.
Anyways, display some higher value, try joking with her, occasionally telling her about this cute girl you met the other day who tried to rape you, or something that shows that it's not her thats the value in your relationship, it's you. Heck, better yet get a pivot or something, a girl you know to walk up in front of her and start hitting on you.
underhanded. But clever.
Well thats the idea.
Anyways, display some higher value, try joking with her, occasionally telling her about this cute girl you met the other day who tried to rape you, or something that shows that it's not her thats the value in your relationship, it's you. Heck, better yet get a pivot or something, a girl you know to walk up in front of her and start hitting on you.
underhanded. But clever.
This is classic PUA BS but to an exent because these "negs" will work temporarily since they are masking something that is lacking. To be honest you shouldn't feel the need to bring ANYONE down. I think a couple of jokes at another person's expense aren't so bad but if you constantly feel that you should bring everyone down to a "level" than I think you have deeper issues you need to work on because it signals a huge insecurity on your part. Girls or people in general aren't as stupid as you might think so if you feel your being different by making fun of her trust me your not being special.
Now on the other hand if she STARTS trying any of that crap with you then of course you can retaliate back playfully to signify you have a solid back-bone IF you have one.
You can always try a different approach for example...
"...how many times do you get hit on a day...!?.."
Her:- blah blah!!
"...oh dang you beat my record!!!.." or "...wow that's almost as close to MY record...!!!"
or
"...man you sure have a lot of admirers...!!"
Her:- blah blah blaaaaah!!!
"...you must love the attention...!!!"
Her:- *qualifying herself*...blah blaaaah blaaaah!!!!
So "negging" is not the only way bruh!!!. Expand your mind & be creative!.
Now on the other hand if she STARTS trying any of that crap with you then of course you can retaliate back playfully to signify you have a solid back-bone IF you have one.
You can always try a different approach for example..."...how many times do you get hit on a day...!?.."
Her:- blah blah!!
"...oh dang you beat my record!!!.." or "...wow that's almost as close to MY record...!!!"
or
"...man you sure have a lot of admirers...!!"
Her:- blah blah blaaaaah!!!
"...you must love the attention...!!!"
Her:- *qualifying herself*...blah blaaaah blaaaah!!!!
So "negging" is not the only way bruh!!!. Expand your mind & be creative!.
LoneSilver
Master Don Juan
Best dam quote yet oakraiderz2
This one sentence (quote) say's all the right things... very powerful.... everyone should read it.... memorize it.... be reminded of it.... and understand it's worth.
I was going to rep you but it says I have to spread it around.
LoneSilver
This one sentence (quote) say's all the right things... very powerful.... everyone should read it.... memorize it.... be reminded of it.... and understand it's worth.
I was going to rep you but it says I have to spread it around.
LoneSilver
oakraiderz2 said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonGorgon
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YEH And that sort or stupid statement is exactly why you will never be a mod...lolDJVladdy said:
Now go ban yourself. :
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
Negging is not the only way, but it does work. Playful negs (not direct insults) can be very useful, although it's not some necessity (always different means to one end).
You can come at it from a different angle and laugh at and neg the chumps who idolise her. You'll DHV and you will gain some common ground with her too. Then you can squeeze yourself onto her pedestal alongside her and you can both look down on these guys together....
If that don't work, you can try throwing acid in the *****es face......
If that don't work, you can try throwing acid in the *****es face......