"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skirtChaser

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the ultimate revenge is you going on being you, and her having to go on being her, lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cyp6

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the best thing to do is remove her exsistence from your life.

she already knows your a great guy she admited it already right? So there is no need to overkill.... Just ignore it.. forget it.. I think you still have deep down feelings for her... its normal.. im guesing that your zodiac sign is a cancer.. we tend to over invest our feelings in things like this.. My advice is for you to just igonor the girl remove the baggage from your life..."revenge is a dish best served silent."
 

drak_ool

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i m sure there s other threads that deal wit the subject but this one is really good:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134589

just like cyp6 was saying, SILENCE is your best weapon. I have been in the exact same situation as you (girl wanting more "space", me ending up breaking with her) however i didn't get caught in this whole "now i m gonna hurt her back" thing. i simply ignored her and now, 4 months later she s still trying to get in touch wit me...
 
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