"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Best way top deal with an ex when you meet them?

skirtChaser

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the ultimate revenge is you going on being you, and her having to go on being her, lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cyp6

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the best thing to do is remove her exsistence from your life.

she already knows your a great guy she admited it already right? So there is no need to overkill.... Just ignore it.. forget it.. I think you still have deep down feelings for her... its normal.. im guesing that your zodiac sign is a cancer.. we tend to over invest our feelings in things like this.. My advice is for you to just igonor the girl remove the baggage from your life..."revenge is a dish best served silent."
 

drak_ool

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i m sure there s other threads that deal wit the subject but this one is really good:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134589

just like cyp6 was saying, SILENCE is your best weapon. I have been in the exact same situation as you (girl wanting more "space", me ending up breaking with her) however i didn't get caught in this whole "now i m gonna hurt her back" thing. i simply ignored her and now, 4 months later she s still trying to get in touch wit me...
 
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