"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best way top deal with an ex when you meet them?

skirtChaser

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the ultimate revenge is you going on being you, and her having to go on being her, lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cyp6

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the best thing to do is remove her exsistence from your life.

she already knows your a great guy she admited it already right? So there is no need to overkill.... Just ignore it.. forget it.. I think you still have deep down feelings for her... its normal.. im guesing that your zodiac sign is a cancer.. we tend to over invest our feelings in things like this.. My advice is for you to just igonor the girl remove the baggage from your life..."revenge is a dish best served silent."
 

drak_ool

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i m sure there s other threads that deal wit the subject but this one is really good:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134589

just like cyp6 was saying, SILENCE is your best weapon. I have been in the exact same situation as you (girl wanting more "space", me ending up breaking with her) however i didn't get caught in this whole "now i m gonna hurt her back" thing. i simply ignored her and now, 4 months later she s still trying to get in touch wit me...
 
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