Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Quite possibly the lamest question I've read all week.Originally posted by NHzJOKER
NEED HELP TEASEING A FRIEND
Well if it's not a question and he actually needs help teasing then I'm not jumping on a plane to Arizona to help him.Originally posted by Keeper
Hmm... didn't even notice it was a qestion.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can't tease a female friend unless she's attracted to you. The only way you can make her attracted to you is to be your best around her at all times. You need to look your best, dress your best, don't act goofy or silly, and make sure you smell your best.Originally posted by NHzJOKER NEED HELP TEASEING A FRIEND
No the RATE MY HOTTNESS thread in the HS forum topped this one. lol.Originally posted by G-Man UK
Quite possibly the lamest question I've read all week.