Best way to steal a girl from another dude?

[drak_ool]

you r wasting your time... there is no such thing as "stealing" a girl. For f***k's sake, she s not somebody's property! if she s willing, she ll do it, but obviously she s not, or you wouldn't be posting this. question answered

 

[Snow Plowman]

lol, I'm hearing alot of moans and groans about the morals of chicks cheating and actually having sex with a chick that has a BF.

I'm not sure if some of you guys notice but most HOT chicks have some guy that there fuking. How do you expect to have sex with HOT chicks if you are always worried about whether or not they have a BF.

Man the fuk up and because you deserve the BEST. Don't settle for scraps. I can understand if you really would never talk to a girl who is seeing someone because thats just apart of who you are.

I'm not saying to go around trying to mess up relationships by deliberately approaching chick who clearly has a BF, but I'm also not saying to settle for scrapes.

BFs don't mean sh!t, its just a social title. For me personally there was a month where I ended up fuking nothing but chicks who had BFs. Most never told me and I ended up finding out, others indirectly mentioned it but didn't care. One particular time I remember gaming a chick and everyone telling me she's with her BF, I ask if she with her BF and she says "NO". I purposely blew myself out because I really wanted to see if her BF was actually here so I asked her like 4 more times before she actually said yes. One minute later BF sits by her not knowing she was all into me a min before he came.

Those who are saying a woman can't cheat doesn't understand social dynamics and really need to look into it.

Given the right situation MOST women will cheat. There are some chicks who WON'T do it. (When I say cheat, I'm talking about SEX) But it is possible to get a makeout atleast. It's actually easier to get girls who have BFs because she is only comparing you to her BF.

I'm leaving it at this, because I don't want to get off topic...bottomline if your not cooler than her BF then she would never cheat on him with you. Also BT is another thing you can use to your advantage. (This is why it's possible to kiss girls and get her # right in front of her BF)

 

[skirtChaser]

hey jax, take the advice you always give to everybody else, move on

 

[nicknle]

well i've had a girlfriend being swept away by an ex. this is something that i find very important in advancing my game. how can i avoid something like that happening to me in the future?

the way i like to think of it is: you're giving her what she wants. there are a lot of people just stuck in relationships with problems. girls that are with cheating boyfriends. girls that are with abusive jerks. i'm all for better relationships and by being the one who provides it then it can help me advance and share my experience for others to learn from.

There's no specific way to do this, the main thing is to never ever get attached, before you're going out, while you're going out, and most definitely after you've broken up. Never let the woman get the sense that you absolutely need her, because in reality you don't. Just be true to yourself, see a situation for what it really is, not what your emotions tell you it is. Confidence is pretty much synonymous with being relaxed, if you let your emotions control your thoughts you'll have a harder and harder time being relaxed, which will eventually start coming off as insecurity and the woman will see you in a different light than she's used to.

 

[up_an_up]

lol, I'm hearing alot of moans and groans about the morals of chicks cheating and actually having sex with a chick that has a BF.

I'm not sure if some of you guys notice but most HOT chicks have some guy that there fuking. How do you expect to have sex with HOT chicks if you are always worried about whether or not they have a BF.

Man the fuk up and because you deserve the BEST. Don't settle for scraps. I can understand if you really would never talk to a girl who is seeing someone because thats just apart of who you are.

I'm not saying to go around trying to mess up relationships by deliberately approaching chick who clearly has a BF, but I'm also not saying to settle for scrapes.

BFs don't mean sh!t, its just a social title. For me personally there was a month where I ended up fuking nothing but chicks who had BFs. Most never told me and I ended up finding out, others indirectly mentioned it but didn't care. One particular time I remember gaming a chick and everyone telling me she's with her BF, I ask if she with her BF and she says "NO". I purposely blew myself out because I really wanted to see if her BF was actually here so I asked her like 4 more times before she actually said yes. One minute later BF sits by her not knowing she was all into me a min before he came.

Those who are saying a woman can't cheat doesn't understand social dynamics and really need to look into it.

Given the right situation MOST women will cheat. There are some chicks who WON'T do it. (When I say cheat, I'm talking about SEX) But it is possible to get a makeout atleast. It's actually easier to get girls who have BFs because she is only comparing you to her BF.

I'm leaving it at this, because I don't want to get off topic...bottomline if your not cooler than her BF then she would never cheat on him with you. Also BT is another thing you can use to your advantage. (This is why it's possible to kiss girls and get her # right in front of her BF)

So then what would be the best route to get a girl with a BF?? I mean i know some girls who might "mention" their BF, but they dont talk about him. Also i would assume she wouldnt be talking/spending time with someone if she really cared about her BF. Would the best bet be to ask for her number if you feel some attraction between you and her?

 

[Maxtro]

I agree with Snow Plowman. The vast majority of women have "boyfriends" or somebody who is screwing her. If she doesn't have a boyfriend it usually means that something is wrong with her. Or that she is new to the area, but even in that case she may be struggling to keep an LDR going.

If you believe that it is wrong to go after a girl just because you think that she has a boyfriend then you will never get anything. But I do think that it can be wrong based on how she really feels about him and how their lives are connected.

There are two girls that I am interested in that have boyfriends. One has been dating her BF for two years. From what she tells me, he goes to her house every day to visit her and her family. He goes with her and her family on vacations. He is liked by the kids in her family. Because of the connection to her BF and her family I feel that it is wrong for me to try and break them up. While I would not turn her down if she made advances on me, I will not actively pursue her as long as I know she is still with him.

As for the other girl, her BF is back in Hawaii. I'm sure they email and talk on the phone a lot but none of that is real. Unfortunately she seems to be making a trip to Hawaii every month to be with her friends. And I'm sure she sees him. As for her relationship, I would feel no guilt in destroying her relationship with her BF that is 2,390 miles away. Frankly I wouldn't be surprised to find out that he is cheating on her. I can't imagine having a girl that I'm not able to bang at least once a week.

She has gotten much more friendly with me and her conversation with me makes it seems like she is actually interested in my life or she is extremely polite. When I was telling her about my week long vacation she seemed to be a little too excited even though what I had done wasn't that exciting. On Friday, I will invite her to have lunch with me after class. The mood was perfect when I was walking with her to the parking lot but I had to cut our conversation short because I needed to talk to one of my professors. I hope to post something positive on Friday.

BTW sorry for going off topic.

 

[DonJuan11]

You can't steal her unless she wants to be stolen.

Ain't that the truth roof.

Girls don't like anything that they are not comfortable with. You coming into the picture is messing with her lifestyle, her harmony.

I would still go for it if you're looking some action, but don't expect her to leave him completely and start a new relationship with you.

 

[christz]

You can't steal her unless she wants to be stolen.

damn right.. you can tempt but a happy girl in a happy relationship will never stray.

 

[IceCream]

Unless of course, she thinks she can be "happier".

 

[ChocolateVanilla]

Ain't that the truth roof.

Girls don't like anything that they are not comfortable with. You coming into the picture is messing with her lifestyle, her harmony.

I would still go for it if you're looking some action, but don't expect her to leave him completely and start a new relationship with you.

Well according to the social exchange theory in psychology, if a girl's comparison level (her perceptions of the costs and benefits of being in a relationship, so a high reward to cost ratio is good) is lower than her comparison level of alternatives (her perceptions of the cost/benefit ratio of being with SOMEONE ELSE), then theoretically, she'll leave her boyfriend for you. So either her comparison level within the relationship has to be already low (i.e. she's unhappy with her current relationship), or you have to be that much "higher value" than her original bf in order to "steal a girl from another dude". So I guess the question is, is she happy with her relationship or not?

 

[Maximus Rex]

I really don't understand what the fascination is with taking the next dude's girl. Is this chick really that hot? Can she really cook that good? Is her "head clinic so much better than Superhead's that it makes Ms. Steffans look like she's chewing on beef jerky?

What's wrong with focusing your time on chicks that don't have boyfriend's? But to answer your question, from everything that I've read is that if your "frame," is tighter than her boyfriend's then your good.

But ask yourself these questions:

How will her boyfriend react? Is he the violent type? Will he get pissed and want to come after you?

Suppose you do get the chick? What will you do if the erstwhile boyfriend goes "AFC" on yall? What are you going to do when he's coming around all the time and constantly calling and texting?

What will you do if she does start messing with you, then she decides to "work things out," with her ex?

If your successful your going to be thinking your a "big ole pimp," like Mystery'em, but what are you going to do if and probably when she does the samething to you that she did to her ex? Don't think for a minute it won't happen, karma is a b*tch.

Finally in the end you have to ask yourself, is it really worth all the hassle and headache, I don't think so.

 

[DavenJuan]

first its been said several times here but would you want a girl who cheated on her bf to be with you and expect any less...or at the least worry about it at some point?

..if you looking for just a lay take this into consideration....

one of the hottest girls i ever talked to had a bf. i didnt really care to talk to her because of this bf, however we knew each other through a mutual friend so i saw her here and there.

long story short, the fact that i would stay away from her made her likee me more. she would call more, text more, she was soooo unhappy with her guy, however i knew she would never leave.

She would tell me if she had a reason to leave, (meaning me), then she would do it, but i already knew that i wouldnt want to be with a girl that i KNOW cheated, just waiting for the next best thing to come along.

well, we ended up hooking up (sex) several times, it got old, i felt like sh*t, and nothing came of it. she didnt leave her bf nor did i expect her too. But i was stuck with nothing. T

here is only satisfaction in knwonikng you can pull some other guys braod, after that wears off..wheres the benefit to me??

 

[feelingloved]

Everyone has vulnerabilities. If you persist any girl will eventually give in, under the right circumstances, I believe. But why do it.? You destroy his ego. She feels tainted, if not worse. You both will in time, I believe.
Sometimes you can not help yourself, and you are going to do what you want to do. But if you have sanity,
the better questions is to ask "what drives me to do it" rather than "how can I do it".

 

[Poonani Maker]

Be, "the better man" and she'll gravitate towards you. Otherwise, find yourself another fish. Don't be so closed-minded, and lazy.

best advice

If you Really love her, then you'll think of ways to shine and stand out and make sure it's in her midst. That way, if she Still rejects you, you will have become a Much better person And be in a much better position for a greater woman because you loved first, without having to have to be reciprocated totally with that love dished out, so put forth the effort, but certainly be Sly about it, like a snake, and slither into her life gradually, to where you're seeing each other on a daily basis, but not necessarily speaking to each her. Let her make the first move. This is a direct Attack on her subconscious, when you do it with action, non-verbally, as opposed to worthless talk.

 

[Nighthawk]

What's wrong with focusing your time on chicks that don't have boyfriend's?

As people have stated, there aren't any. Most women have a nominal boyfriend, hotties most definitiely, even if it's just to drive them about and buy them stuff, and won't leave them unless they have another branch to swing to. Just be a better branch, make it clear that you might be available (if that makes sense) and if she wants out of an unsatisfactory relationship she will leave him for you. There doesn't have to be any cheating involved.

If that still goes against anyone's morals, good luck finding a woman amongst the tiny, low-quality pool you deem available.