"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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best way to set up a second meeting?

TheFlyingMan

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I picked up a girl who was working at my local store, and we chatted for a good while. She's very friendly towards me (and very hi-bye to the other customers), but my calibration skills are not good enough to tell if she wants me or not. We had great conversation, and she didn't want to see me leave.

I am going to go back tomorrow and set up another meeting, but what's the best way to do it?

A) A casual hang out? Like "Hey let's go for a drink this sunday" Then gunwitch and kino?
B) I ask her straight out, let me intentions be known? Then gunwitch and kino?

I like my gunwitch, I think it works great, but those are mostly with girls I get from night game, I can just kino and gunwitch them right there in the bar/club. With a situation like this, how do I do it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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j8snx1

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Avoid option B! Why let your intentions be known when it's already implied when you SUGGEST you two go do something nice?

Hahaha from the way she reacts around you it must be pretty good interest so play your cards right with a casual and confident attitude and you'll be just fine!

My only suggestion is that you try taking her out someplace that allows you to do good KINO and has a lot of ACTION in it! Say...bowling or pool or some kind of dance or martial arts class or something man! Taking a girl out to drink on a first date, assuming thats gonna be a date, is probably for one-night-stands.
 

BacardiGuy

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Go in, talk to her, and give something along the lines of "Listen, it's great talking to you but I know you've got a job to do and I don't want to get you fired so why don't we get together and...."
 
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