"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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best way to set up a second meeting?

TheFlyingMan

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I picked up a girl who was working at my local store, and we chatted for a good while. She's very friendly towards me (and very hi-bye to the other customers), but my calibration skills are not good enough to tell if she wants me or not. We had great conversation, and she didn't want to see me leave.

I am going to go back tomorrow and set up another meeting, but what's the best way to do it?

A) A casual hang out? Like "Hey let's go for a drink this sunday" Then gunwitch and kino?
B) I ask her straight out, let me intentions be known? Then gunwitch and kino?

I like my gunwitch, I think it works great, but those are mostly with girls I get from night game, I can just kino and gunwitch them right there in the bar/club. With a situation like this, how do I do it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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j8snx1

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Avoid option B! Why let your intentions be known when it's already implied when you SUGGEST you two go do something nice?

Hahaha from the way she reacts around you it must be pretty good interest so play your cards right with a casual and confident attitude and you'll be just fine!

My only suggestion is that you try taking her out someplace that allows you to do good KINO and has a lot of ACTION in it! Say...bowling or pool or some kind of dance or martial arts class or something man! Taking a girl out to drink on a first date, assuming thats gonna be a date, is probably for one-night-stands.
 

BacardiGuy

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Go in, talk to her, and give something along the lines of "Listen, it's great talking to you but I know you've got a job to do and I don't want to get you fired so why don't we get together and...."
 
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