"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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best way to set up a second meeting?

TheFlyingMan

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I picked up a girl who was working at my local store, and we chatted for a good while. She's very friendly towards me (and very hi-bye to the other customers), but my calibration skills are not good enough to tell if she wants me or not. We had great conversation, and she didn't want to see me leave.

I am going to go back tomorrow and set up another meeting, but what's the best way to do it?

A) A casual hang out? Like "Hey let's go for a drink this sunday" Then gunwitch and kino?
B) I ask her straight out, let me intentions be known? Then gunwitch and kino?

I like my gunwitch, I think it works great, but those are mostly with girls I get from night game, I can just kino and gunwitch them right there in the bar/club. With a situation like this, how do I do it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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j8snx1

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Avoid option B! Why let your intentions be known when it's already implied when you SUGGEST you two go do something nice?

Hahaha from the way she reacts around you it must be pretty good interest so play your cards right with a casual and confident attitude and you'll be just fine!

My only suggestion is that you try taking her out someplace that allows you to do good KINO and has a lot of ACTION in it! Say...bowling or pool or some kind of dance or martial arts class or something man! Taking a girl out to drink on a first date, assuming thats gonna be a date, is probably for one-night-stands.
 

BacardiGuy

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Go in, talk to her, and give something along the lines of "Listen, it's great talking to you but I know you've got a job to do and I don't want to get you fired so why don't we get together and...."
 
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