"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best way to respond to "Like shiet"

DJnoob

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Me: Hows work treatin ya today
cute girl: "Like shiet"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Agree and amplify to get her interested in opening up then for closing ask her to join you for drinks - to take the shiet off.
 

Toddz

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That's your cue to invite her over to your place for wild sex
 

Mazer

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Low interest. When a girl is interested in a guy, most of the time they respond with some upbeat message. If she has low interest, she will complain/negativity.. I would ask her out immediately, no small talk. "Lets get a drink so you can forget about your shiet day, hows 7pm at x place sound?" if she says no and doesn't counter, you already know.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Advice from the old lady:

OK I get that she's cute. But she's quite negative in attitude. The things the men are advising you may well work to get her out on a date, and if you get her out on a date you might get somewhere with her, etc. I just cannot see her being a whole bunch of fun if she is this negative with you so quickly.

I'm floored by what I hear women saying to men at times. Nobody wants to hand around a drag, a nag or a (-) Nancy.
 
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