"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Best way to meet women?

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So I went out today with the intent of atleast getting one girl's number. In total I visited 3 places.

The local mall (which is pretty crappy for a mall)
An Ice cream shop
and Walmart....

At the mall the only decent women worth approaching had babies with them or husbands.... walked around for another 30 mins or so then split to Marble Slab.
At Marble slab there were a few hefty ladies sitting in the corner, and one good looking girl with her family.... more people came in of the senior citizen variety, time to split.

As I pull up to Walmart I'm thinking I'll surely get at least ONE number here or a conversation at the very least. I walk in and there's NOTHING. Just a bunch of senior citizens and women that should really learn what a gym is....an hour later I walk out disappointed not even a cute cashier to talk with...

Finding a girl on base is out of the question, their either taken or never come out of their dorms... I'm just lost
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hollywood31548

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Guess I'll have to. The club isn't my thing and I can't even drink anyways.
On a good note During dinner I did get the server to agree to come with me to the range to shoot trap and skeet
 

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Yeah, Walmart's where all the high class 19 year olds like to hang out. Surprised you didn't see any.
 

Hollywood31548

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plate's_empty said:
Yeah, Walmart's where all the high class 19 year olds like to hang out. Surprised you didn't see any.
Hahaha in my 19 years of living I could attest to that :yes:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, at least you didn't get rejected by anyone or get flakes. Look at the bright side.

What time of day or hour did you go? You may have to be more creative on your venues.
 

Hollywood31548

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corrector said:
Well, at least you didn't get rejected by anyone or get flakes. Look at the bright side.

What time of day or hour did you go? You may have to be more creative on your venues.
True, I went around 1 in the afternoon. More creative? If you thinking nighttime venues like the clubs most are blacklisted by our commander.
I really thought Walmart would be THE place to go since EVERYONE goes to Walmart
 

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Hahaha fvck me... Wal Mart? You're not gonna meet anyone nice at Wal Mart.

Try getting involved in things and meeting women there. Maybe take a dance class or some martial arts classes... start lifting and meet chicks at the gym if you want a girl with a nice body.

You know? Do stuff you like and meet chicks there.

My tip to you:

Never lower your standards. EVER.


You will regret it if you get involved with a girl that you know is below your league. I've done it. It's a pain in the ass, especially since I hate hurting people. At least cutting them off before they get too attached only hurts them a little bit. I nearly dated a ***** and then realized, as I started considering tying the knot more and more, that she was not at all my type or worth my time.

Just be choosy.
Good luck, mate.
 

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Hollywood31548 said:
True, I went around 1 in the afternoon. More creative? If you thinking nighttime venues like the clubs most are blacklisted by our commander.
I really thought Walmart would be THE place to go since EVERYONE goes to Walmart
What Seenox said.

FYI: I avoid Walmart at all costs. Have you ever seen http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/photos/ ? you think it's a joke until you actually go to one. It's the only place where all the "odd" people feel at home.

But if you're looking in that realm and focusing on your day game then actually Target is the way to go. But you'll find a lot more MILF's there buying picture frames than you will younger women IMO.

Are you in a town where there's lots of girls your age? You said dorms... Might have to go a town or two over, a lot of it factors on the location of the the place where you're doing you pick ups.
 

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The best way by far to meet women is through friends, the second best way is through work. (Generally speaking that is, if you work in a hospital like I do then work is the best way.

It really makes things heaps easier, mainly because your social proof is already developed. Other than that I think nightclubs are the way to go but only for sex , not for relationships or quality women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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