"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best way to meet women?

Hollywood31548

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So I went out today with the intent of atleast getting one girl's number. In total I visited 3 places.

The local mall (which is pretty crappy for a mall)
An Ice cream shop
and Walmart....

At the mall the only decent women worth approaching had babies with them or husbands.... walked around for another 30 mins or so then split to Marble Slab.
At Marble slab there were a few hefty ladies sitting in the corner, and one good looking girl with her family.... more people came in of the senior citizen variety, time to split.

As I pull up to Walmart I'm thinking I'll surely get at least ONE number here or a conversation at the very least. I walk in and there's NOTHING. Just a bunch of senior citizens and women that should really learn what a gym is....an hour later I walk out disappointed not even a cute cashier to talk with...

Finding a girl on base is out of the question, their either taken or never come out of their dorms... I'm just lost
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hollywood31548

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Guess I'll have to. The club isn't my thing and I can't even drink anyways.
On a good note During dinner I did get the server to agree to come with me to the range to shoot trap and skeet
 

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Yeah, Walmart's where all the high class 19 year olds like to hang out. Surprised you didn't see any.
 

Hollywood31548

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plate's_empty said:
Yeah, Walmart's where all the high class 19 year olds like to hang out. Surprised you didn't see any.
Hahaha in my 19 years of living I could attest to that :yes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, at least you didn't get rejected by anyone or get flakes. Look at the bright side.

What time of day or hour did you go? You may have to be more creative on your venues.
 

Hollywood31548

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corrector said:
Well, at least you didn't get rejected by anyone or get flakes. Look at the bright side.

What time of day or hour did you go? You may have to be more creative on your venues.
True, I went around 1 in the afternoon. More creative? If you thinking nighttime venues like the clubs most are blacklisted by our commander.
I really thought Walmart would be THE place to go since EVERYONE goes to Walmart
 

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Hahaha fvck me... Wal Mart? You're not gonna meet anyone nice at Wal Mart.

Try getting involved in things and meeting women there. Maybe take a dance class or some martial arts classes... start lifting and meet chicks at the gym if you want a girl with a nice body.

You know? Do stuff you like and meet chicks there.

My tip to you:

Never lower your standards. EVER.


You will regret it if you get involved with a girl that you know is below your league. I've done it. It's a pain in the ass, especially since I hate hurting people. At least cutting them off before they get too attached only hurts them a little bit. I nearly dated a ***** and then realized, as I started considering tying the knot more and more, that she was not at all my type or worth my time.

Just be choosy.
Good luck, mate.
 

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Hollywood31548 said:
True, I went around 1 in the afternoon. More creative? If you thinking nighttime venues like the clubs most are blacklisted by our commander.
I really thought Walmart would be THE place to go since EVERYONE goes to Walmart
What Seenox said.

FYI: I avoid Walmart at all costs. Have you ever seen http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/photos/ ? you think it's a joke until you actually go to one. It's the only place where all the "odd" people feel at home.

But if you're looking in that realm and focusing on your day game then actually Target is the way to go. But you'll find a lot more MILF's there buying picture frames than you will younger women IMO.

Are you in a town where there's lots of girls your age? You said dorms... Might have to go a town or two over, a lot of it factors on the location of the the place where you're doing you pick ups.
 

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The best way by far to meet women is through friends, the second best way is through work. (Generally speaking that is, if you work in a hospital like I do then work is the best way.

It really makes things heaps easier, mainly because your social proof is already developed. Other than that I think nightclubs are the way to go but only for sex , not for relationships or quality women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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