"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Best way to meet girls at lecture

The Master Disaster

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It's fricking hard.

The only girls I meet are threw my friends. I hate doing that because they all are from local schools and are drama centrals.

I just want to know how to talk to girls on the other side of a hundered person class without coming off as weird and as though your stalking them?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Walking Anomaly

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Id say next lecture, sit with a friend somewhat close to some ladies...next time the teacher says something obvious or common sense...say something funny or a bit sarcastic...get her to laugh a bit...if she giggles about it, you're in...dont be afraid to put her on the spot a bit, as in when she giggles, say something, for instance "see? she knows what im talkin about." Take the convo from there. Just be cool.

IMO If you can make a chick laugh, you can make her do anything.

~WA
 

Chemistry

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1. Change seat... get a seat nearer to her so you can start conversation quite naturally with her... it is college, and college IS a social place...

OR

2. At the end of a lecture walk over in her direction with a friend but not directly to her... then just branch off and start a conversation with her like it's totally natural as you just happened to be walking past her...


You can crack jokes and demonstrate authority and value, but unless you do either of the above in conjunction with it then you might as well not bother cracking jokes to impress the chick!
 

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If it's a packed lecture, I just sit right next to her (obviously you can't if there are already people next to her). If it's not packed, then one or two seats away.

If it's packed, I just say "wow, pretty packed huh?" just as an ice-breaker. Yesterday I had this enthusiastic little Italian girl reply with oh yeah it sure is packed, and there were even more people for the last one blah blah. Obviously if you get any kind of enthusiastic response to such a mundane observation it's a good sign. But even just "yeah, I know" is good enough -- afterall, it's only an icebreaker.

After, you can just sneak in some casual comments/questions. Obviously you're not really gonna get too deep into anything (especially not if you intend to actually learn anything), but just stuff to show you're an interesting/fun/exciting kinda guy (not boring!). One that I usually get a bit of a laugh with is if someone enters the lecture theatre really late, like say 20 minutes after it's started, I say sarcastically "just made it..." Again, it's just light-natured fluff.

If you feel that you are vibing with her, at the end of the class, just say, so what have you got on next, and if she says nothing you can suggest doing something, like just hanging out wherever people at your school hang out. Or if she's got another class, you can just tell her to make sure she says hi if you she sees you at the cafetaria (or wherever peope hang out), or, if you want, like if you really clicked with her, ask her number or suggest hanging out at a preset time or something. Or if you don't feel that you made much of an impression, you can still ask her to hang out anyway, just to practise getting rejected if nothing else. (Last one is still hard for me, so I know how it feels.)
 
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