"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best way to initiate the first kiss?

whistler

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one of those things

This is one of the many situations where you should just trust your gut, but also be considerate of what it means to a woman. Stop thinking. If you're doing that, you'll know when and if she wants to be kissed.

And don't just leap in there. Maintain a masculine posture, but do like dirtymexican mentions and make it special for her.

Kissing is huge for girls. So treat the first kiss as if she's the love of your life and you want to create a romantic memory. (Of course, imply that, but never be explicit about it.) There's a good reason for this. If it's romantic enough, she'll be hooked.

Some tips:

It's romantic to her if...

You're alone with her.

The lighting is low, or you're under a street lamp.

You just had a conversation or a calm silence with an underlying sexual vibe.

You've been making lots of eye contact.

You've got comfortable kino going.

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Of course, if you're in that sort of situation, she already likes you. LOL. But make it good. It's worth it. Of course if you're going for an ONS, realize doing this stuff will make her think you want an LTR.

You can do this and STILL be masculine and aggressive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nice post whistler, agreed.;)
 

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Re: one of those things

Originally posted by whistler
Kissing is huge for girls. So treat the first kiss as if she's the love of your life and you want to create a romantic memory. (Of course, imply that, but never be explicit about it.) There's a good reason for this. If it's romantic enough, she'll be hooked.
Totally agree and that first kiss can melt even the coldest hearts if done right!
 
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