"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best way to initiate the first kiss?

whistler

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one of those things

This is one of the many situations where you should just trust your gut, but also be considerate of what it means to a woman. Stop thinking. If you're doing that, you'll know when and if she wants to be kissed.

And don't just leap in there. Maintain a masculine posture, but do like dirtymexican mentions and make it special for her.

Kissing is huge for girls. So treat the first kiss as if she's the love of your life and you want to create a romantic memory. (Of course, imply that, but never be explicit about it.) There's a good reason for this. If it's romantic enough, she'll be hooked.

Some tips:

It's romantic to her if...

You're alone with her.

The lighting is low, or you're under a street lamp.

You just had a conversation or a calm silence with an underlying sexual vibe.

You've been making lots of eye contact.

You've got comfortable kino going.

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Of course, if you're in that sort of situation, she already likes you. LOL. But make it good. It's worth it. Of course if you're going for an ONS, realize doing this stuff will make her think you want an LTR.

You can do this and STILL be masculine and aggressive.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nice post whistler, agreed.;)
 

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Re: one of those things

Originally posted by whistler
Kissing is huge for girls. So treat the first kiss as if she's the love of your life and you want to create a romantic memory. (Of course, imply that, but never be explicit about it.) There's a good reason for this. If it's romantic enough, she'll be hooked.
Totally agree and that first kiss can melt even the coldest hearts if done right!
 
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