Hey guys (or girls) first and foremost i appreciate your constructive comments it helped me through frail times of my life.
Like all the other posts, this post too has a girl. To start off i met this girl quite a while back while i displayed AFC behaviours. We'd talk on the phone long hours and any time i asked her to meet me, she'd flake, always with some excuses.
So, i realised this girl was very unpredictable. Manipulative is a better word. Back when we used to talk on the phone, after a few conversation, i started to use her as a guinea pig. I experimented on the things i needed to work on like '****y funny' and teased her some, to which she always thought i was 'mad' at her. She'd always ask me if i was mad at her and i'd give a sarcastic answer. She then started telling me of her boyfriend and that he was being very posessive and asked if i was 'posessive' too. I didn't think much. we stopped talking for a long time.
On MSN i see her one day and i ask, how is her boyfriend doing to which she replies "what boyfriend?" i continue with the conversation just being playful here and there. She suddenly reveals to me that she likes someone in Australia. I ask a few question about the distance and change the subject.
Again on msn another day (this is funny) she comes and starts talking. I ask how her boyfriend in australia is she tells me, she doesn't think it'll work out. She tells me relationships are useless. Then she sends me her picture (HB8), i think she was expecting me to just kiss her ass after the picture sending, but i didn't even open it till after we wre done conversing. I told her that too. She then replies with 'i'm sorry i'm thinking of Ray' (lol) She proceeds to tell me Ray is ruder then i am. I change the subject. This is when she tells me, she's in love with me and states the reason why she thinks she's in love with me. I just say "u can't fall in love with me" i was expecting for her to say "why?" but she didn't. Instead she, believe me when i say this, she rambles on about how her and Ray had a fight on the phone and he hung up on her and she is trying to re-establish a phone connection. I tell her i'm not her psychologist and what was this about her liking me? she then tells me 'like you?' after that she constantly avoids any question i ask. I say **** it and leave.
I make an exception for her and I email her to hang out this friday. to which first e-mail she replies with "sure we can go" and then emails me back 15 minutes later saying "she just realised she had a test on friday, maybe we can go after, or another day"
Now the question is do you think I should give her any more chances she flaked once before or is she to psycho?
appreciate it.
Like all the other posts, this post too has a girl. To start off i met this girl quite a while back while i displayed AFC behaviours. We'd talk on the phone long hours and any time i asked her to meet me, she'd flake, always with some excuses.
So, i realised this girl was very unpredictable. Manipulative is a better word. Back when we used to talk on the phone, after a few conversation, i started to use her as a guinea pig. I experimented on the things i needed to work on like '****y funny' and teased her some, to which she always thought i was 'mad' at her. She'd always ask me if i was mad at her and i'd give a sarcastic answer. She then started telling me of her boyfriend and that he was being very posessive and asked if i was 'posessive' too. I didn't think much. we stopped talking for a long time.
On MSN i see her one day and i ask, how is her boyfriend doing to which she replies "what boyfriend?" i continue with the conversation just being playful here and there. She suddenly reveals to me that she likes someone in Australia. I ask a few question about the distance and change the subject.
Again on msn another day (this is funny) she comes and starts talking. I ask how her boyfriend in australia is she tells me, she doesn't think it'll work out. She tells me relationships are useless. Then she sends me her picture (HB8), i think she was expecting me to just kiss her ass after the picture sending, but i didn't even open it till after we wre done conversing. I told her that too. She then replies with 'i'm sorry i'm thinking of Ray' (lol) She proceeds to tell me Ray is ruder then i am. I change the subject. This is when she tells me, she's in love with me and states the reason why she thinks she's in love with me. I just say "u can't fall in love with me" i was expecting for her to say "why?" but she didn't. Instead she, believe me when i say this, she rambles on about how her and Ray had a fight on the phone and he hung up on her and she is trying to re-establish a phone connection. I tell her i'm not her psychologist and what was this about her liking me? she then tells me 'like you?' after that she constantly avoids any question i ask. I say **** it and leave.
I make an exception for her and I email her to hang out this friday. to which first e-mail she replies with "sure we can go" and then emails me back 15 minutes later saying "she just realised she had a test on friday, maybe we can go after, or another day"
Now the question is do you think I should give her any more chances she flaked once before or is she to psycho?
appreciate it.