Have a chick that has become obsessed with me. Banged her out a few times and am ready to move on. Whats the best way to handle this? Just ignore her? Tell her some its not you its me bullchit? Be honest and tell her I think she is too nuts and she smells?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
best way to drop a plate?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Omerta
Don Juan
just stop talking to her unless shes stalking/calling you non-stop
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Lmao.. Just go ghost
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Beat me to the punch.TheGambino said:
Bible_Belt
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best way to drop a plate?
I stick my foot out and try to give it a soft landing, so it doesn't make too big of a mess that could hurt anybody.
I stick my foot out and try to give it a soft landing, so it doesn't make too big of a mess that could hurt anybody.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.