Have a chick that has become obsessed with me. Banged her out a few times and am ready to move on. Whats the best way to handle this? Just ignore her? Tell her some its not you its me bullchit? Be honest and tell her I think she is too nuts and she smells?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
best way to drop a plate?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Omerta
Don Juan
just stop talking to her unless shes stalking/calling you non-stop
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Lmao.. Just go ghost
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Beat me to the punch.TheGambino said:
Bible_Belt
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best way to drop a plate?
I stick my foot out and try to give it a soft landing, so it doesn't make too big of a mess that could hurt anybody.
I stick my foot out and try to give it a soft landing, so it doesn't make too big of a mess that could hurt anybody.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.