“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Best way to drop a plate gently

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Been on a couple of dates with a plate I met online. Smashed a few times. No social connections but would feel bad just ghosting her as she seems to be a decent person and clearly wants a boyfriend.

Starting a masters and running a business at the same time so just don't have the capacity for more than one plate at the moment and she doesn't make the cut.

Best way to let this one down gently? Would like to have the option to hook up again if I ever have the availability months from now.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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BeTheChange said:
Been on a couple of dates with a plate I met online. Smashed a few times. No social connections but would feel bad just ghosting her as she seems to be a decent person and clearly wants a boyfriend.

Starting a masters and running a business at the same time so just don't have the capacity for more than one plate at the moment and she doesn't make the cut.

Best way to let this one down gently? Would like to have the option to hook up again if I ever have the availability months from now.
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my two instinctive ideas are

1. try telling her the truth as you wrote it here

2. hire her, then use the expected employment standards as your excuse to cool it.

If she's still attracted she'll give it up again when you're available because she'll be available(nearby)
 
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Just tell her you are going through life changing events right now, which you are and that you'd rather concentrate on that and not have any distractions. Tell them that you think it would be unfair to place them really low in the priority list as that would be disrespectful and would rather try to reconnect at a later time if both of you are still single.
 
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BeTheChange said:
Been on a couple of dates with a plate I met online. Smashed a few times. No social connections but would feel bad just ghosting her as she seems to be a decent person and clearly wants a boyfriend.

Starting a masters and running a business at the same time so just don't have the capacity for more than one plate at the moment and she doesn't make the cut.

Best way to let this one down gently? Would like to have the option to hook up again if I ever have the availability months from now.
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Tell her that you're not looking for a relationship and just keep seeing her one day a week to smash. Tell her that you're busy the rest of the time.
 
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