guys, which is in your opinion the best way to control feminine hypergamy? thousands of men tried to do in the entire human history and still failed. Although spinning plates is the best way to avoid ONEitis, I read somewhere in Rollo's blog that the most effective way to control hypergamy is doubt and dread... in other words chicks should feel the fear of loosing the Great catch. Any thoughts?
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best way to control feminine hypergamy?
- Thread starter joker79
- Start date
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Tictac
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You don't control hypergamy.
You acknowledge it and work with it.
You acknowledge it and work with it.
PlayHer Man
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Trying to control female hypergamy is like trying to control the male sex drive. You can't change something that is in their very nature. All you can do is be aware of it and work around it.
One of the best ways is to stop looking for a f*cking soul mate--> Some loyal princess that will never leave your side. Not a realistic goal these days. :nono:
Even if you are the BEST a woman can do she might still leave you after she gets everything she wants from you --> Money and children. After reproduction and financial stability is found.. some women will leave a high status man to be SINGLE FOR LIFE.
To modern women.. men are simply ATM's and sperm banks. So why view them as anything more than baby machines and sex toys? You'd be a fool not to. :crackup:
Another thing to consider --> Even if you keep a hottie for life she won't stay a hottie for life.
Spin plates.
One of the best ways is to stop looking for a f*cking soul mate--> Some loyal princess that will never leave your side. Not a realistic goal these days. :nono:
Even if you are the BEST a woman can do she might still leave you after she gets everything she wants from you --> Money and children. After reproduction and financial stability is found.. some women will leave a high status man to be SINGLE FOR LIFE.
To modern women.. men are simply ATM's and sperm banks. So why view them as anything more than baby machines and sex toys? You'd be a fool not to. :crackup:
Another thing to consider --> Even if you keep a hottie for life she won't stay a hottie for life.
Spin plates.
They didn't fail. Lots of people have had great relationships and meaningful relationships. They succeeded.joker79 said:
Probably better to learn from them than Rollo.
There is no way to control the feminine without limiting your enjoyment and experience of it. Every ounce of control you gain will be that much less self-expression for the woman. And we love women's self-expression, thats why we spend hundreds of hours on this site and other ones like it.
You have to become brave enough to deal with fallout. A lot of our relationship-guru-geniuses are cowards when it comes to dealing with fallout. Its because they have a very low threshold for emotional pain, so they cannot stand to experience loss.
So they never get the full experience of Woman.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
VikingKing
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It is what it is. You have to be like water. Deal with it, PLAY it to your advantage. I hate hypergamy right now. Becuase ive been lied to my whole life.
But you can use it to your personal advantage. Listen to they guys who have a lot of rep on here. The will show you the way, and give you the tools, but only you control your destiny.
But you can use it to your personal advantage. Listen to they guys who have a lot of rep on here. The will show you the way, and give you the tools, but only you control your destiny.
Complete and utter indifference. We've all heard the phrase "the one who cares the least controls the relationship" a thousand times but it's true, that's why people keep saying it. Ironically by not seeking to control hypergamy you'll have more control over it. Choosing sane women with low partner counts, high self esteem, good families and healthy childhoods helps as well.