guys, which is in your opinion the best way to control feminine hypergamy? thousands of men tried to do in the entire human history and still failed. Although spinning plates is the best way to avoid ONEitis, I read somewhere in Rollo's blog that the most effective way to control hypergamy is doubt and dread... in other words chicks should feel the fear of loosing the Great catch. Any thoughts?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
best way to control feminine hypergamy?
- Thread starter joker79
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tictac
Banned
You don't control hypergamy.
You acknowledge it and work with it.
You acknowledge it and work with it.
PlayHer Man
Banned
Trying to control female hypergamy is like trying to control the male sex drive. You can't change something that is in their very nature. All you can do is be aware of it and work around it.
One of the best ways is to stop looking for a f*cking soul mate--> Some loyal princess that will never leave your side. Not a realistic goal these days. :nono:
Even if you are the BEST a woman can do she might still leave you after she gets everything she wants from you --> Money and children. After reproduction and financial stability is found.. some women will leave a high status man to be SINGLE FOR LIFE.
To modern women.. men are simply ATM's and sperm banks. So why view them as anything more than baby machines and sex toys? You'd be a fool not to. :crackup:
Another thing to consider --> Even if you keep a hottie for life she won't stay a hottie for life.
Spin plates.
One of the best ways is to stop looking for a f*cking soul mate--> Some loyal princess that will never leave your side. Not a realistic goal these days. :nono:
Even if you are the BEST a woman can do she might still leave you after she gets everything she wants from you --> Money and children. After reproduction and financial stability is found.. some women will leave a high status man to be SINGLE FOR LIFE.
To modern women.. men are simply ATM's and sperm banks. So why view them as anything more than baby machines and sex toys? You'd be a fool not to. :crackup:
Another thing to consider --> Even if you keep a hottie for life she won't stay a hottie for life.
Spin plates.
They didn't fail. Lots of people have had great relationships and meaningful relationships. They succeeded.joker79 said:
Probably better to learn from them than Rollo.
There is no way to control the feminine without limiting your enjoyment and experience of it. Every ounce of control you gain will be that much less self-expression for the woman. And we love women's self-expression, thats why we spend hundreds of hours on this site and other ones like it.
You have to become brave enough to deal with fallout. A lot of our relationship-guru-geniuses are cowards when it comes to dealing with fallout. Its because they have a very low threshold for emotional pain, so they cannot stand to experience loss.
So they never get the full experience of Woman.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VikingKing
Banned
It is what it is. You have to be like water. Deal with it, PLAY it to your advantage. I hate hypergamy right now. Becuase ive been lied to my whole life.
But you can use it to your personal advantage. Listen to they guys who have a lot of rep on here. The will show you the way, and give you the tools, but only you control your destiny.
But you can use it to your personal advantage. Listen to they guys who have a lot of rep on here. The will show you the way, and give you the tools, but only you control your destiny.
Complete and utter indifference. We've all heard the phrase "the one who cares the least controls the relationship" a thousand times but it's true, that's why people keep saying it. Ironically by not seeking to control hypergamy you'll have more control over it. Choosing sane women with low partner counts, high self esteem, good families and healthy childhoods helps as well.