"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best way to boost confidence

LADawg49

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One good way to boost your confidence in social settings is to take an acting class. In college, im taking an introduction to acting class this semester and it will be lots of fun, especially performing in front of the classroom and all. It'll build alot of confidence in social settings, especially with the opposite sex. Oh yeah the fact there are some beautiful women in that class is an added bonus.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DeathDealer

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Being an actor/actress does make you more confident in social situations and perhaps make you better communicators too.

But then again you can't ask a bookworm nerd to get on stage and start acting out a scene, he won't do as good job as the more outgoing and better looking (although is dumb) salesman.
 

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I know for a fact that would help me with my confidence and whatnot. But I'm too pvssy to do it, and I'd just feel out of place in an acting class.
 

LADawg49

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Cmon scrum, no one would feel out of place in an acting class. I mean I used to be the worst AFC ever and all but now Im on the path toward self improvement. I haven't gotten there yet but im still working on it. They offer these classes in college. The positive thing with takin an Intro to Acting class: Free A, boost your confidence in public/social settings especially round women, and some beautiful women which im gonna try to talk to in the near future.
 
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