"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best way to boost confidence

LADawg49

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One good way to boost your confidence in social settings is to take an acting class. In college, im taking an introduction to acting class this semester and it will be lots of fun, especially performing in front of the classroom and all. It'll build alot of confidence in social settings, especially with the opposite sex. Oh yeah the fact there are some beautiful women in that class is an added bonus.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DeathDealer

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Being an actor/actress does make you more confident in social situations and perhaps make you better communicators too.

But then again you can't ask a bookworm nerd to get on stage and start acting out a scene, he won't do as good job as the more outgoing and better looking (although is dumb) salesman.
 

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I know for a fact that would help me with my confidence and whatnot. But I'm too pvssy to do it, and I'd just feel out of place in an acting class.
 

LADawg49

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Cmon scrum, no one would feel out of place in an acting class. I mean I used to be the worst AFC ever and all but now Im on the path toward self improvement. I haven't gotten there yet but im still working on it. They offer these classes in college. The positive thing with takin an Intro to Acting class: Free A, boost your confidence in public/social settings especially round women, and some beautiful women which im gonna try to talk to in the near future.
 
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