"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best way to ask her out again?

marmel75

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I challenge you, at the end of every date, when you're driving them to their car, or asking where they parked/escorting them to their car: thank them for spending the evening with you, then kiss them right on the lips. Do not ask!! and do not engage in lengthy, awkward, meaningless small talk. Kiss her on the lips or embrace the rejection and walk away.

When they deny you the kiss, do not act upset or discouraged. Simply smile and say, "goodnight" then politely walk away. Then deny your time and attention. Let her initiate contact with you, and if she doesn't initiate contact with you, then you must be willing to walk away permanently.

It has often been said that a woman's biggest fear in life is a man who is willing to walk away even when he doesn't want to.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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