"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best way to ask a girl to send a picture?

liptonteadrinker

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Would something like "hey could you send a picture for your profile on my phone"? or is that just too cheesy..
suggestions please
thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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joverby

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What do you want the picture for? If that's really what you want it for then it's not cheesy.
 

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I've always used, "Send me a sexy picture. :p"

Of course, I wait until we are in a heightened peak of conversation and things are going well to ask it.

It's interesting some of the results you get. Some girls will just send a picture of their face. Some girls will send you a picture of them in their bra and panties. Others will send you topless etc.. it's almost a simple way to test a girls skankness and/or interest level.

If it's just for a phone profile, then what you said earlier is fine. But if you're looking for a PICTURE PICTURE, then make sure you wait until her emotional and interest level for you is high. Even if it's only for the moment. Butter her up a bit. Be playful, and tease her, then just ask. Or, if you want to go the other route, just simply hint at it through some innuendos. But there is going to be a point where she is either going to ask you straight up, or you're going to have to make it clear exactly what you want. It's part of being a man.

-Scars
 

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I tell her "show me what you got" and she send me naked one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LMFAO

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Send her one of yours and then say "your turn".
 

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"How about we exchange pictures? I promise not to put your picture on the Internet and make a profit off of it if you promise the same with mine.. Kelvin Klein has wanted a boxer shot of me for years too but they can't afford it. "
 

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Just ask her straight up, or tell her something like you wish you had a picture of her ass to distract you at work. If she's hesitating, I always recommend that they crop their face out. Very effective.
 

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Ill send one first sometimes, and usually get a likewise response. If not, Ill say "so, gotta pic for me? ;P"

Or sometimes Ill outright tell them without sending one first; "send me a cute pic :D"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are you looking for a nude picture or something more conservative?
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
She is going to mention how she appears in some context, or what she is doing. Then you say, "show me."

ex:


"I just got out of the shower"

"show me".

I use "show me" all the time. This is how it's done....
 
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