"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best way to ask a girl out?

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I know the most important thing is to do it in person but i have misconceptions on exactly how to say it out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bballer7389

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um well I alluded to it to her by using my customized kicks sayin that i wear it on special occasions. She asked me if that day was ,and I told it maybe one. So at the end of our date, I straight out said I wore these sneakers cuz I wanted to know if you would like to be my GF, she ate all up and said yesi n a instant. As corny as it sounds it worked.
 

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I did some really corny ****, but it worked.

basically iw as in computer class and she sat in another row.


so we were sneakin onto aim express and i was just talkin to her and then i said

dude you know who i like?
her: who?
me: mmm
her: tell me!!!
me:well shes pretty and coool
her: who is it?
me: insert other crap i said here*
her: omg tell me who
me: well shes sitting between xxx and xxx =]
her: *looks behind at me jaw drops and smiles*
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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use a wing if you don't want to do it personally

he could be like, "hey man who are you going to the mall with this friday? i'm going with my girlfriend _____. you're going to be walking alongside your mom if you keep this up..hahh"

then he could walk away

and then you could ask her flat out

orrrr you could just ask her to help you pick out apparel

if she really likes you, the deliverance really shouldn't matter, unless it's pure a$$
 

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lol i asked this girl im friends with what she thought about me saying, "so im going to the mall on friday, u should come with me". and she thought it was really cute and a good idea.
 

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i think you guys are misunderstanding his question.

hes not asking for tips on how to ask a girl on a date or whatever.

i'm assuming hes been dating this girl and just wants the title of boyfriend/girlfriend.

see my above post for my 2 cents =P
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kev07 said:
i think you guys are misunderstanding his question.

hes not asking for tips on how to ask a girl on a date or whatever.
No i am asking more so on asking a girl out.
 

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Depends where you want to go, remember the DJ approach.
A)I AM GOING XXX AT XXX(time), i would like it if you came with me OR
b)lets go XXX at XXX
keep it simple, remember, say the place, time, and see if shes free. Dont talk for longer than 5 minutes as this makes you seem desperate to talk to her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kev07 said:
I did some really corny ****, but it worked.

basically iw as in computer class and she sat in another row.


so we were sneakin onto aim express and i was just talkin to her and then i said

dude you know who i like?
her: who?
me: mmm
her: tell me!!!
me:well shes pretty and coool
her: who is it?
me: insert other crap i said here*
her: omg tell me who
me: well shes sitting between xxx and xxx =]
her: *looks behind at me jaw drops and smiles*

Dat wasnt corny that was raw! That was serious lol. You get one of these. :wave: (I dont no what that is its just funny.)
 
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