Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Best way to ask a girl if she's on the rag?

mark123

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I started seeing this girl about 3-4 weeks ago. We've banged twice so far. She's due sometime for her period, and i don't wanna just hang with her in the day(s) when i know i won't get any action.

Any ideas on how I can ask her that without giving her the impression that sex is all i'm after?

Thanks for your replies..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SgtSplacker

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I'm thinking about going to the beach tomorrow wanna come?
 

Greasy Pig

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Just meet up and play it by ear.
If she's flying the red flag and still won't put out, then you've gained some valuable intel for any future interactions with her.
Many women still want to fvck when they're bleeding. Others will at least give *******s or wristies.
 

HeadLightsOn

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Sneevox said:
Why wouldn't you hang with her? Just do it.
Ewwwwwww. :crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Purefilth

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HeadLightsOn said:
Ewwwwwww. :crackup:
Yeah man she prolly has cooties!
 

Down Low

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But . . . you . . . do . . . want to make her think you're there for sex. Otherwise, why are you there? Not for sex? That would be faggotty.

"Hey. Are you on your period?"

That'll do the trick.

"When did / will it start?"

That's the perfect follow-up question. Put the answer in your calendar -- to help organize your dates a month later. She'll be so busy answering up to you that she won't spend much time thinking about why she should be answering to you. She'll just be obeying. Which is just fine. You get the information you wanted, you planted the idea you wanted, and you got the automatic obedience you wanted. A "win-win" situation.
 
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