"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best way to ask a girl if she's on the rag?

mark123

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I started seeing this girl about 3-4 weeks ago. We've banged twice so far. She's due sometime for her period, and i don't wanna just hang with her in the day(s) when i know i won't get any action.

Any ideas on how I can ask her that without giving her the impression that sex is all i'm after?

Thanks for your replies..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

SgtSplacker

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I'm thinking about going to the beach tomorrow wanna come?
 

Greasy Pig

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Just meet up and play it by ear.
If she's flying the red flag and still won't put out, then you've gained some valuable intel for any future interactions with her.
Many women still want to fvck when they're bleeding. Others will at least give *******s or wristies.
 

HeadLightsOn

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Sneevox said:
Why wouldn't you hang with her? Just do it.
Ewwwwwww. :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Purefilth

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HeadLightsOn said:
Ewwwwwww. :crackup:
Yeah man she prolly has cooties!
 

Down Low

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But . . . you . . . do . . . want to make her think you're there for sex. Otherwise, why are you there? Not for sex? That would be faggotty.

"Hey. Are you on your period?"

That'll do the trick.

"When did / will it start?"

That's the perfect follow-up question. Put the answer in your calendar -- to help organize your dates a month later. She'll be so busy answering up to you that she won't spend much time thinking about why she should be answering to you. She'll just be obeying. Which is just fine. You get the information you wanted, you planted the idea you wanted, and you got the automatic obedience you wanted. A "win-win" situation.
 
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