"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Suspens said:
Indeed, that is the case. And fear of what her male coworkers would do. So what, ask anyway. The bigger the balls, the more her pvssy will tingle, even if she says no.

Should I just forget her and sarge in more comfortable areas? Or approach her and be as straightforward as possible and tell her "Your hair is cute. I like you, give me your number " thats much better than your previous ideas.. Simple, spontaneous, and straight to the point


Actually I tried that line once on a HB 8/10 and the nasty b1tch replied by saying " I know you like me, but that doesn't give you the right to have my number".thats not a nasty bîtch, thats a shît test leaving the door open to see if you'll puss out or not. Come back playful and light, "why not?" Or "so youd rather just go straight to the date?"
Dont be so hard on yourself brother, be patient and have fun with it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So I heard u like candy. I got a snicker bar in my pants u want some lol
 

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So I heard u like candy. I got a snicker bar in my pants u want some lol
 

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You're looking for some magic pick up line to "get her" ... it doesn't work like that. I hate to break the news to you, but you're not ready to get this girl. You're hunting for moby d*ck in a life raft with a butter knife in hand. You've lost your frame and you haven't even said a word to her.

You need to realize something here... moby d*ck isn't actually real. What are you doing out in the water, in a life raft, holding a butter knife?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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But be warned, everytime you go in there and FAIL to try and get her out on a date... the stranger it will be.
Turned out you were right. Visited their shop today, maybe for the fourth time in a month. She immediately left her desk and got out of sight. It was the second time she acted like that.

I don't know, I haven't shown any kind of IOIs yet. I haven't even made a direct eye contact. How the hell could she read my mind? Or maybe I'm just over thinking again.

Why is this sickfvck creep coming here that often? Yeah just another desperate trash trying to get my attention. Goddamned stalker, I don't want to see you again.
Her internal dialogue I guess.

Anyway, definitely not going there again. Her attitude crushed any kind of hope i was having.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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:rockon: moving on...

though still not sure wtf happened
 

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YES YES, it was all in my head. Gone there again, wearing my best clothes and walking like a boss.

She looked at me twice for like 2 seconds and I ignored her. Next time visiting their shop with a HB8.:cheer: :rockon: I know i can find one.
 

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Put 50 cent - Candy shop as a ringtone and have a buddy call you while you inside.

Seriously you lost her hard at the heart picture reciet thingy, how could you do this...

Idk what will make it work from then on...
 

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Put 50 cent - Candy shop as a ringtone and have a buddy call you while you inside.

Seriously you lost her hard at the heart picture reciet thingy, how could you do this..

Idk what will make it work from then on...

:crackup:

That was an idea, I didn't actually do that.
 

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:crackup:

That was an idea, I didn't actually do that.
Oh hell almost got me. :D

Anyway, when I see something I like I try to take it. I dont beat around the bush. I used to, but not anymore.

Idk maybe stuff like going there with a girl will get her in your bed but you obviously want more and you like her alot and women see through bull****. She may be like "Oh he tries so hard, I have to put out." But they see through BS.

Many bricks in the wall... around 3 billion... so no biggie...

But I wouldnt go there with a girl to show off, this is something women do...

Dont sink that low... Ask youself, is sleeping with beutiful women that big of a goal, and are the means justified?

I bet she gets gamed all day long, so if you just went there and gave her a look or two, and then went up to her and said: "Hi, I like you, Im XXX" and extend arm for a handshake you would win. COuse youd be different. THats what I do nowadays. Nobody around me acts like this.

I sometimes feel out of place around here, but youre funny guys :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BrainDamage92 said:
I bet she gets gamed all day long, so if you just went there and gave her a look or two, and then went up to her and said: "Hi, I like you, Im XXX" and extend arm for a handshake you would win. COuse youd be different. THats what I do nowadays. Nobody around me acts like this.

I sometimes feel out of place around here, but youre funny guys :D
That's what I'd like to do. I should work on my conversation skills.
 

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That's what I'd like to do. I should work on my conversation skills.
Tomorrow, get out and about. Identify 5 women you'd like to meet.

Ask each one what time it is. (Make sure you are not wearing a watch)

Whatever they say, you say 'thank you' and move on.

When to have done that, get back to me.
 

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I stole a chocolate bar and when I got caught I dropped it and then slipped on a banana peel. I fell and broke some furniture. I had to pay for the chocolate bar, the furniture, and a $50 fee for stealing.
 

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Ask each one what time it is. (Make sure you are not wearing a watch)

Whatever they say, you say 'thank you' and move on.

When to have done that, get back to me.
Actually I can talk to anyone, but I can't keep it going. Anyway, I started a new thread about my approach failures.
 
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