"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best way to approach this candy girl

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Suspens said:
Indeed, that is the case. And fear of what her male coworkers would do. So what, ask anyway. The bigger the balls, the more her pvssy will tingle, even if she says no.

Should I just forget her and sarge in more comfortable areas? Or approach her and be as straightforward as possible and tell her "Your hair is cute. I like you, give me your number " thats much better than your previous ideas.. Simple, spontaneous, and straight to the point


Actually I tried that line once on a HB 8/10 and the nasty b1tch replied by saying " I know you like me, but that doesn't give you the right to have my number".thats not a nasty bîtch, thats a shît test leaving the door open to see if you'll puss out or not. Come back playful and light, "why not?" Or "so youd rather just go straight to the date?"
Dont be so hard on yourself brother, be patient and have fun with it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I heard u like candy. I got a snicker bar in my pants u want some lol
 

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So I heard u like candy. I got a snicker bar in my pants u want some lol
 

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You're looking for some magic pick up line to "get her" ... it doesn't work like that. I hate to break the news to you, but you're not ready to get this girl. You're hunting for moby d*ck in a life raft with a butter knife in hand. You've lost your frame and you haven't even said a word to her.

You need to realize something here... moby d*ck isn't actually real. What are you doing out in the water, in a life raft, holding a butter knife?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RangerMIke said:
But be warned, everytime you go in there and FAIL to try and get her out on a date... the stranger it will be.
Turned out you were right. Visited their shop today, maybe for the fourth time in a month. She immediately left her desk and got out of sight. It was the second time she acted like that.

I don't know, I haven't shown any kind of IOIs yet. I haven't even made a direct eye contact. How the hell could she read my mind? Or maybe I'm just over thinking again.

Why is this sickfvck creep coming here that often? Yeah just another desperate trash trying to get my attention. Goddamned stalker, I don't want to see you again.
Her internal dialogue I guess.

Anyway, definitely not going there again. Her attitude crushed any kind of hope i was having.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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:rockon: moving on...

though still not sure wtf happened
 

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YES YES, it was all in my head. Gone there again, wearing my best clothes and walking like a boss.

She looked at me twice for like 2 seconds and I ignored her. Next time visiting their shop with a HB8.:cheer: :rockon: I know i can find one.
 

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Put 50 cent - Candy shop as a ringtone and have a buddy call you while you inside.

Seriously you lost her hard at the heart picture reciet thingy, how could you do this...

Idk what will make it work from then on...
 

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BrainDamage92 said:
Put 50 cent - Candy shop as a ringtone and have a buddy call you while you inside.

Seriously you lost her hard at the heart picture reciet thingy, how could you do this..

Idk what will make it work from then on...

:crackup:

That was an idea, I didn't actually do that.
 

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:crackup:

That was an idea, I didn't actually do that.
Oh hell almost got me. :D

Anyway, when I see something I like I try to take it. I dont beat around the bush. I used to, but not anymore.

Idk maybe stuff like going there with a girl will get her in your bed but you obviously want more and you like her alot and women see through bull****. She may be like "Oh he tries so hard, I have to put out." But they see through BS.

Many bricks in the wall... around 3 billion... so no biggie...

But I wouldnt go there with a girl to show off, this is something women do...

Dont sink that low... Ask youself, is sleeping with beutiful women that big of a goal, and are the means justified?

I bet she gets gamed all day long, so if you just went there and gave her a look or two, and then went up to her and said: "Hi, I like you, Im XXX" and extend arm for a handshake you would win. COuse youd be different. THats what I do nowadays. Nobody around me acts like this.

I sometimes feel out of place around here, but youre funny guys :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BrainDamage92 said:
I bet she gets gamed all day long, so if you just went there and gave her a look or two, and then went up to her and said: "Hi, I like you, Im XXX" and extend arm for a handshake you would win. COuse youd be different. THats what I do nowadays. Nobody around me acts like this.

I sometimes feel out of place around here, but youre funny guys :D
That's what I'd like to do. I should work on my conversation skills.
 

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Suspens said:
That's what I'd like to do. I should work on my conversation skills.
Tomorrow, get out and about. Identify 5 women you'd like to meet.

Ask each one what time it is. (Make sure you are not wearing a watch)

Whatever they say, you say 'thank you' and move on.

When to have done that, get back to me.
 

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I stole a chocolate bar and when I got caught I dropped it and then slipped on a banana peel. I fell and broke some furniture. I had to pay for the chocolate bar, the furniture, and a $50 fee for stealing.
 

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Ask each one what time it is. (Make sure you are not wearing a watch)

Whatever they say, you say 'thank you' and move on.

When to have done that, get back to me.
Actually I can talk to anyone, but I can't keep it going. Anyway, I started a new thread about my approach failures.
 
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