"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Best time to work out?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Different from person to person, I guess. I think everyone should do what they feel is best for them. That's probably the right decision.hope7 said:
Whichever you choose, stick with it for a while and your body will adjust.
I used to lift in the evening and I thought people who lifted in the morning were nuts. The mornings were my supposed low energy period...
Howerver, I was in an accident last year and didn't start lifting until January again. I started in the morning, lightly, and have been steadily increasing. I'm a morning guy now. I can't even imagine coming home after work and lifting. That is my new downtime!
It's a matter of training your body to adjust.