"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I moved to a new place a while ago and did not have any ways of meeting people , and a few weeks ago I started a job at a home improvement store. I have to say It has made me 10X better at talking to people , the first day i worked there i was so nervous to offer helping anyone ,because i didn't know anything about the store , I still don't know very much , but after a few weeks im really starting to get used to starting conversations with strangers. The best part is before i was always worried about the wort thing that could happen , but dealing with people every day , occasionally they are mean , or mad , or pissed that we don't have something or that I don't know where something is at , and im getting more comfortable each day dealing with awkward situations.
I haven't had a good chance to get out and test my new people skills on women , but when I do ill be sure to come back n tell every one how it goes
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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since thats is a wall of text , let me put it this way . I got a job that forced me to be in awkward situations every day, and its making me see that no matter what happens when talking to a girl , nothing would ever be as bad as not talking to her.
 
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it's easy to talk to people when you're on your own turf; get out there and make it happen.
 
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It wasn't easy when i started , there's nothing more awkward than some one coming up to you and assuming your knowledge on something then finding out your pretty mush useless in helping them.

Im defiantly going to go out an mack on hos the first chance I get tho , I have a busy schedule ( witch is also good , because now ill have no choice but to take girls out on my terms) , and my last few days off its been raining bad , and I usually go to the park to hit on girls. Id be going to clubs and bars , but this town has few and I haven't gotten my truck insured and am getting a ride to work , so ill make due till I have thew funds
 
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