Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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cablecow15

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I moved to a new place a while ago and did not have any ways of meeting people , and a few weeks ago I started a job at a home improvement store. I have to say It has made me 10X better at talking to people , the first day i worked there i was so nervous to offer helping anyone ,because i didn't know anything about the store , I still don't know very much , but after a few weeks im really starting to get used to starting conversations with strangers. The best part is before i was always worried about the wort thing that could happen , but dealing with people every day , occasionally they are mean , or mad , or pissed that we don't have something or that I don't know where something is at , and im getting more comfortable each day dealing with awkward situations.
I haven't had a good chance to get out and test my new people skills on women , but when I do ill be sure to come back n tell every one how it goes
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cablecow15

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since thats is a wall of text , let me put it this way . I got a job that forced me to be in awkward situations every day, and its making me see that no matter what happens when talking to a girl , nothing would ever be as bad as not talking to her.
 

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it's easy to talk to people when you're on your own turf; get out there and make it happen.
 

cablecow15

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It wasn't easy when i started , there's nothing more awkward than some one coming up to you and assuming your knowledge on something then finding out your pretty mush useless in helping them.

Im defiantly going to go out an mack on hos the first chance I get tho , I have a busy schedule ( witch is also good , because now ill have no choice but to take girls out on my terms) , and my last few days off its been raining bad , and I usually go to the park to hit on girls. Id be going to clubs and bars , but this town has few and I haven't gotten my truck insured and am getting a ride to work , so ill make due till I have thew funds
 
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