"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best schedule to plan a workout

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Ok guys here's the scoop I normally work 4pm- midnight and would like to do a morning workout but sometimes I work til 2 or 4 am I just want a good time to work out it's hard to adjust work and home
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Find whatever time worms best for you, most pwople work during the day so they workout in the early morning, because your usually tired after work.
 

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Ok guys here's the scoop I normally work 4pm- midnight and would like to do a morning workout but sometimes I work til 2 or 4 am I just want a good time to work out it's hard to adjust work and home
bigwuz, once you are into your fitness regiment ( after 3-6 weeks ) your workouts will raise your energy level for several hours afterwards. It won't make you sleepy, actually the opposite, more alert and sharp. Thus I recommend doing it as part of your "before work" routine. Doing it after work will end up keeping you up at night, it can be hard to go to sleep after a good workout due to adrenaline.
 

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Workout immediately after you wake up from a GOOD QUALITY sleep.

Recovery is goat.

I train 5 times a week at home. Usual stuff
- crunches
- pushups
- squats

Lack of weights = stuffing backpack with sandbags ~ 20 kgs.

Progressive overload ftw

Mix in proper warmups and cardio 3x a week. 45 minutes minimum.

I never train over 1 hour. Studies show overtraining reduces gains, raises cortisol, reduces test and shrinks muscles.

Hydrate well before during after.

Creatine + whey supplements post workout.
Carbs maxx after workout.

I suggest starting strength and bigger leaner stronger for fundamentals
 

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Have you heard of micro workouts? Check it out on youtube
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I worked mids before and found that getting home and getting some sleep before my workout made a massive difference. If your done at midnight I would get 7-8 hours of sleep and workout in the morning. If your getting done at 2am... same.... 4 am... get home and take a nap... 3-4 hours... workout... and do whatever else during the day but take another small nap before you go in.
 

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Once you start working out it becomes an addiction, you start to hate junk food and being a lazy slob who watches tv all day.
 

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Once you start working out it becomes an addiction, you start to hate junk food and being a lazy slob who watches tv all day.
This is absolutely true... I started working out in 1996, my sophomore year in highschool. I can count on my one hand how many times I’ve eaten fast food or drank soda since then.
 

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It doesn't matter when you train, what matters is how you feel. I used to train at night because I was working long hours, now I train in the morning because I have enough time.
 

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With that schedule you can workoutin early afternoon and have the place to yourself and miss the Morning and Evening rush time.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your doing too much, don't force feed the routine, let your interest develop naturally, just show up, ask for a tour, walk around, get shown the place, take your time with your first couple work outs, then once you've developed an appetite, decide how you want to carry it then.

Rushing into this is how you can really mess yourself up, it's easy to develop an ego about how much you can lift and from there it's just a matter of time, the form of your exercises are the most important thing and this takes time.

Once you've got yourself all figured, would highly recommend finding a workout partner.

But yeah don't work out before bed
 
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