"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CaptainJ

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I'm doing a three way split routine, which basically means I cycle through all my muscle groups in 3 days. So first day Shoulders and back, second day Chest and Biceps, third day Triceps and legs. All spaced out by one day to rest.

My question is, does it matter which muscle groups you pair up on a day, would it be more effective to do chest and tricipes one day, and back and biceps another. Is there any difference?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what are your stats? height, weight ect and what exercises do you do
 

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If you're doing a 3 day split, in general it's good to breakup certain muscle groups so they aren't worn out the next day.

For instance :

Day 1 - Chest/Tris
Day 2 - Back/Bis
Day 3 - Shoulders/Legs
Day 4 - Cardio/Rest
 

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I've used the routine you say WC2, except withou the cardio:
Day 1: Back and biceps
Day 2: Chest and Triceps
Day 3: Legs and Shoulders

Been going to the gym for about a year, but had never really gained much muscle mass. So I started going to a proper gym 4 weeks ago, and following this routine and increasing my protein and nutrient intake I have found a really big effect. I've been going every other day and I have gained 14 pounds in 4 weeks.

These are my stats:
6ft2 161pounds

Yeah I'm quite skinny, but then I'm only 17 years old.
I've been focussing mainly on doing Free weights, almost completely cutting the resistance machines out of my work out routine.

I Deadlift 45kg but I'm getting better quickly
I squat 40kg, also getting better.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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