Best response to "You never text me first". We are not dating yet.

[sangheilios]

dude, you met a girl online and expect her to just come over to your house without meeting her in person.

Ignore the "you never text me first" and just ask her out for coffee. She wants to know you're not a serial killer before walking into your house.

****, why would you ever invite a woman over to your house that you've never even met in real life before lol. I mean, it's easy to filter out if you are being catfished or you are talking to some trannie lol, though I could see some desperate simp falling for something like that. I'd be concerned about her trying to rob me or something along those lines. She could be bat**** crazy and you end up unable to be rid of her.

 

[sangheilios]

Hahaha, call an escort service then

Honestly, even with something like this you shouldn't have them come to your house and you should instead get a hotel room. Think about it this way, would you want an escort to actually know where you live? Escorts are at the end of the day individuals from the underworld that are associated with a lot of sketchy people and other crazy stuff behind the scenes, I sure as hell wouldn't want people like this to know where I live. Sounds like a great way to get blackmailed, robbed or many other terrible things.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Honestly, even with something like this you shouldn't have them come to your house and you should instead get a hotel room. Think about it this way, would you want an escort to actually know where you live? Escorts are at the end of the day individuals from the underworld that are associated with a lot of sketchy people and other crazy stuff behind the scenes, I sure as hell wouldn't want people like this to know where I live. Sounds like a great way to get blackmailed, robbed or many other terrible things.

Yeah you are right about that. I think a lot of them won't even come to your house and will instead insist on a hotel room for safety reasons, especially their own.

At least for the first few times...if you become a regular then maybe they will bend the rules a little.

I remember reading some anonymous article written by an escort about her "work" and how things worked and if I remember correctly she rented out a hotel room for the day and people came to her.

 

[sangheilios]

Yeah you are right about that. I think a lot of them won't even come to your house and will instead insist on a hotel room for safety reasons, especially their own.

At least for the first few times...if you become a regular then maybe they will bend the rules a little.

A few years ago I contacted a higher tier/business level one and honestly had a good experience but it's only something I've done once and I had/have no desire to try it out again. I had reached out to a lot of other "providers" and even just through text messaging I picked up on a very bad vibe with many of them, I can't really explain it but I think you understand what I'm talking about. Most of these women have issues with drugs and are involved with a lot of shady stuff that I'd not want to associate with. Even the higher tier ones I'm sure are like this as well, though with the added caveat of using their services to climb the social ladder, travel, etc.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

A few years ago I contacted a higher tier/business level one and honestly had a good experience but it's only something I've done once and I had/have no desire to try it out again. I had reached out to a lot of other "providers" and even just through text messaging I picked up on a very bad vibe with many of them, I can't really explain it but I think you understand what I'm talking about. Most of these women have issues with drugs and are involved with a lot of shady stuff that I'd not want to associate with. Even the higher tier ones I'm sure are like this as well, though with the added caveat of using their services to climb the social ladder, travel, etc.

My only experience with one was in Vegas several years ago when I was there for a conference for work and I was coming back to my room from a club and was walking thru the hotel in a big open area and a woman who was just kinda hanging out by herself swooped in to ask me if I "needed any company tonight". She looked good but I told her no thanks...

I kinda was insulted...I was like damn...do I not look like I could go get laid if I really wanted to? Hahaha

 

[zekko]

So basically you want pvssy to fall from the sky with no effort.

Yes, please.

 

[sangheilios]

My only experience with one was in Vegas several years ago when I was there for a conference for work and I was coming back to my room from a club and was walking thru the hotel in a big open area and a woman who was just kinda hanging out by herself swooped in to ask me if I "needed any company tonight". She looked good but I told her no thanks...

I kinda was insulted...I was like damn...do I not look like I could go get laid if I really wanted to? Hahaha

There are plenty of men that hire these women that aren't necessarily having issues with getting women. Think about it this way, if you are incredibly busy with work and hyper focused on that you aren't going to have much free time available to chase women. If your goal is to just have sex and you have the money this is the best way to go about doing it, far more efficient than going through the entire dating process. There are tons of very successful men that are into this, tons of rappers, NFL players, etc. Lisa Ann and Nikki Benz, both porn stars, have talked about sleeping with celebrities, pro athletes, etc. Now, they sure as hell weren't doing it for free lol.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

There are plenty of men that hire these women that aren't necessarily having issues with getting women. Think about it this way, if you are incredibly busy with work and hyper focused on that you aren't going to have much free time available to chase women. If your goal is to just have sex and you have the money this is the best way to go about doing it, far more efficient than going through the entire dating process. There are tons of very successful men that are into this, tons of rappers, NFL players, etc. Lisa Ann and Nikki Benz, both porn stars, have talked about sleeping with celebrities, pro athletes, etc. Now, they sure as hell weren't doing it for free lol.

They might be for clout or 'bragging rights'

 

[sangheilios]

They might be for clout or 'bragging rights'

The point is that even celebrities and pro athletes engage in this. There was an NFL player who talked about spending tens of thousands on escorts in a given year during his career, it was an interview I watched a while ago. Someone like this could easily have found a gold digger wife or some sugar baby, etc.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Charlie Sheen rented escorts because 'they leave when you tell them to'.

 

[gwoppin]

"I'm not living up to your ideal statistics. Maybe we should break up."

Either she'll understand that you're too busy to comply with her texting desires, or she'll stop texting.

Dont do this, texting women like youre emailing her from HR.

 

[gwoppin]

Brother she LITERALLY TOLD YOU word for word what she wants. 'i want to hang out first.'

Make a move before it fizzles out