"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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werdmaster

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I met a girl at a party, and she seemed very interested in me there, but i was too busy hosting to really dj her. I got her screen name, and whenever i talk to her she seems very interested. Like, i say sumthign and she responds immediately, of course im purposely leaving an extra 20 seconds bewteen ims.


My friend told me that she has a bf. If I decide to ask her out, suppose she says she has a bf. What should my response be?

As well, shud i ask her out, online or get her number and call her up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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AlexTheGreat

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ask her out face-to-face through her telephone. As in, say "Hey, let's go to a movie together" or something like that, without making it seem as if it's a date. Then, if she asks you anything about "if it's a date or just a friendly outing", make her guess. Don't tell her. Then, once you're at the event, kiss her. If she tells you "but I have a boyfriend", tell her "and I bet he never made you feel this way" and kiss her again.

If she refuses the second time, friendzone her or something.


if you don't wanna risk it this much, here's the important part :
my say is you should ask her through the phone or in person only, not through some IM program.
 

Best friends? NAY

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if you'r goin hit on her... set up something and go hit on her then.... Don't ask her to be your g/f or anything just go and see what happends.
 

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A BOY Friend? Ha. When you're ready for a MAN Friend, call me.

Yeah, i think i got that one out of the bible.
 
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