"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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werdmaster

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I met a girl at a party, and she seemed very interested in me there, but i was too busy hosting to really dj her. I got her screen name, and whenever i talk to her she seems very interested. Like, i say sumthign and she responds immediately, of course im purposely leaving an extra 20 seconds bewteen ims.


My friend told me that she has a bf. If I decide to ask her out, suppose she says she has a bf. What should my response be?

As well, shud i ask her out, online or get her number and call her up?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AlexTheGreat

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ask her out face-to-face through her telephone. As in, say "Hey, let's go to a movie together" or something like that, without making it seem as if it's a date. Then, if she asks you anything about "if it's a date or just a friendly outing", make her guess. Don't tell her. Then, once you're at the event, kiss her. If she tells you "but I have a boyfriend", tell her "and I bet he never made you feel this way" and kiss her again.

If she refuses the second time, friendzone her or something.


if you don't wanna risk it this much, here's the important part :
my say is you should ask her through the phone or in person only, not through some IM program.
 

Best friends? NAY

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if you'r goin hit on her... set up something and go hit on her then.... Don't ask her to be your g/f or anything just go and see what happends.
 

PiHiPlaya

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A BOY Friend? Ha. When you're ready for a MAN Friend, call me.

Yeah, i think i got that one out of the bible.
 
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