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Best response to "I have a boyfriend"?

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Pretty much every attractive girl has a bf anyways, or at least claims to ... so what is your response to this when you ask for the # and they say they have a boyfriend? Thanks
 

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You "could" say something like "I'm sure he's cute but I'm sure that he wouldn't be my type," but my gut tells me that they just don't want to give up their number. I suggest working on your rapport with women and skip asking for her number until after you ask her out on a date.
 

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Does he have a camcorder? He can tape us, if you want.
 

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shoot thats my favorite line for them to say.
Just tell them " nah thanx i rather have your number" or the old one " im not trynna get with your bf" or " who said that i want to be your bf? , i just want your number"

there are many answers to that, but when it comes to girls with bf's dont try to get in there unleast u really really like them and its not just for a peace of booty.

lord knows I know from experience...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Does he have a camcorder? He can tape us, if you want.
say that and forget totally about getting her number...
 

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Originally posted by bfl
say that and forget totally about getting her number...
Dude, if she's taking the time to tell you she has a boyfriend, you already can usually forget about getting her number.

So why not get a cheap laugh out of the deal?
 

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that she says that she has a bf does not necesarly mean that u are not getting her phone number, it all depends in how u approach the situation after she says them 4 words.

For instance in my case with my girlfriend, she had a boyfriend when i first met her and asked her for her number, however i kept talking to her, and ended up 40 percent ljbf'ed but i with her phone number. ( i say 40 percent cause obiously she was interested in me for her to give me her number)

Enough said that after like 2 months or so we got together after our "friendship" developed into something more than just friends, and look at me now, the girl that had a bf'ed and didnt wanna give me her number, is my girlfriend now.
 

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Originally posted by bfl
that she says that she has a bf does not necesarly mean that u are not getting her phone number, it all depends in how u approach the situation after she says them 4 words.

For instance in my case with my girlfriend, she had a boyfriend when i first met her and asked her for her number, however i kept talking to her, and ended up 40 percent ljbf'ed but i with her phone number. ( i say 40 percent cause obiously she was interested in me for her to give me her number)

Enough said that after like 2 months or so we got together after our "friendship" developed into something more than just friends, and look at me now, the girl that had a bf'ed and didnt wanna give me her number, is my girlfriend now.
First, I wouldn't brag about that, given what we already know about that stellar relationship.


Second, it's called a goddamned joke.


Third, girls typically tell you that they have a boyfriend when they want you to leave them alone.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
First, I wouldn't brag about that, given what we already know about that stellar relationship.


Second, it's called a goddamned joke.


Third, girls typically tell you that they have a boyfriend when they want you to leave them alone.
First yall dont know nothing about my relationship with my GIRLFRIEND yall might about other girls.

second its call " i give up i have no chance in getting your number"

Third, true, others want to see what u are all about

fourth , you go ahead mr gigolo, mr sosuave.com
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Originally posted by bfl
second its call " i give up i have no chance in getting your number"
You keep doing what you're doing. It's obvious that you're having metric tons of success so far.
 

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The classic responce "And how long have you had this problem?" is always good
 

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I prefer asking for dates, then getting the number.

That way when they say they have a boyfriend you just tell them that he can't come with.
 

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just cos a girl has a boyfriend or says she does does not mean shes not worth pursuing. think about it nowadays most boyfriends are what we would call emotional tampons. sometimes a girl will say she has a boyfriend just to see if youre man enough to **** with her anyway.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Okay, you guys keep going after the taken girls with your canned responses to what usually amounts to "leave me the hell alone".

That leaves more single ones for me.
 

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Best response to "I have a boyfriend"?

And??? (continue to look at her with disbelief).

or:

Really? Wow, even ugly girls have boyfriends these days.

http://img21.exs.cx/img21/2446/pp009.jpg

[walks away]
 
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I've also used this one and it got a laugh out of the one chick that I did use it on:

"Don't you want a better one?"

Even if I didn't get the number so what I was still having fun with it.
 
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