"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
****y = Obnoxious
****y = Annoying
****y = Clown
I don't see why you would want to be c+f anyway since she is your GF.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Believe me, ****y funny works. It may not have worked for you, or you might not have done it right, or given it a fair shot, but it works. It is like a food condiment, you gotta now how and when to use and how much to use it in order to make it work effectively. You can't just pour it on, it looses its effect.NickBe said:
What are probably the two most attractive qualities women love in men? You got it, Confidence and a great sense of humor. Women love a confident man who also has a great sense of humor. The problem is that most guys use "****y/Dumbass" more often than ****y funny. Also, the technique itself won't work if the guy using it is a plain jacka$s.
To the original poster, I agree with the others here, you're in your head too much. You got a girlfriend, don't worry about texts, just focus on being a fun interesting guy, specially when you are spending time together.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"I tried ****y and funny and said 'I am so hot I am to good for you' and she got mad"
****y does not work and most of the crap David D writes does not work. Confidence however does work....
Although I do go for smart women so maybe ****iness works with your run of the mill white American chick. If I wanted to spend my days discussing American Idol and fast food maybe I should be a little more ****y. Who knows...
Seriously though, women love confidence and deplore ****iness. Confident+funny works not ****y+funny.
Vulpine
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Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
****y, yet not overdone, works. The humor part is used to make the ****y part more mellow. OK, semantics, who cares wether it is confident, or ****y, etc. it is the same idea. Ok, so you don't agree with the terminology, yet we are talking about the same thing. I agree with you, most people here will try it and wonder why the girls run away. Even ****y itself works if done right. As long as it is not overdone to the point of being seen as overcompensating for other shortcomings.NickBe said:
Believe me, if I use my sarcasm, wit, and confidence, and/or ****yness mixed the right way, she will usually react positively. If she doesn't, I know she's either a bimbo that just doesn't get it, the humor of it, very inexperienced sociallay, or plainly an uptight witch who I really don't have any interest in pursuing. The smarter and more fun shes is, the more positively she will react, from my experience.
Confident:
1. Having strong belief or full assurance; sure: confident of fulfillment.
2. sure of oneself; having no uncertainty about one's own abilities, correctness, successfulness, etc.; self-confident; bold: a confident speaker.
3. Excessively bold; presumptuous.
****y:
arrogant; pertly self-assertive; conceited
Women do not like ****y it is the wrong word and gives newbies the wrong impression. It makes them think they need to be arrogant and obnoxious.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Although, I have had tons of women tell me "You are kind of arrogant!" with a big smile and look that clearly tells me they are very attracted to me. Many of them confirmed it later on that they were very attracted to my confidence. So even the women get confused with the teminology.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
However, as a month or two went by, I noticed the jokes I started using that worked, and the ones' that didn't. I layed off the ****y a tad bit and used a combination of Funny, sweet, and ****y. I have found this works the best for me!
Note: When you insult somebody, you are not using ****y humor effectively. I strongly suggest you look at some threads in this forum, there are many great one's out there! Once you read a couple, you will start to make some on your own!
Also, don't use ****y humor on girls who are insecure, shy, etc.. you will not the get the same result as if you were approaching a 7 or an 8. ****y humor just sets you apart from other guys, at least in my opinion. It shows that you aren't just a quiet guy, you are funny, energetic, and you think of yourself really highly. Girls don't say it, but they like a guy who is just a little bit too ****y. As long as you know how to balance both funny and ****y, you will notice results. Also, don't do it too much - only do it when it's a perfect moment. You don't always have to be ****y and funny, take everything into moderation!
Oh yes, and as for a reply to the thread.
Girl: "How are you."
You: "Many women say I'm pretty fine."
I would use that depending on your relationship with the girl. If you hardly talk to her, you might scare her. I know pretty much all the women I associate with really well - so I tend to tease them all in the same way.
Either that, or I would not reply to the text - do this especially if you tend to reply to texts all the time.
If you find she is texting you ALOT and you hardly talk to her on the phone, and you want to hear her voice, text her back with something such as:
"Wow, can't we just talk on the phone like NORMAL people? " And depending on how ****y you were before or how well she knows you, you could add this: "I know my good looks may be intimidating, but don't worry.. I don't bite... too hard."
I just thought of those in like 2 minutes to be honest - perfect the art of ****y funny and I'm sure you will be able to think of better answers.