"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best Reply To This Text She Sent

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I MEET THIS CUTE FOXY RUSSIAN BABE..

Shes HERE FOR 3 WEEKS!!!!

THE DAY i met her i sent her a text at night and got a reply in 10 secs...

Next night i send Her another TExt...at Night

She replys in the evening the next Day with THIS!!!

Hi, Jason sorry darling yesterd was clubbing didnt c ur txt. how are u? i,m working today :( have a funny day :-D

so whats the best reply to this Baby....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Call her up and ask her if she wants to hang out tonight. Just the two of us.


Fear not. She wants to.
 
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Seriously, forget all this texting nonsense. Don't be a girl.
 
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While you were thinking about her and waiting for a response to your text message she was out partying, getting hit on by numerous guys, probably getting bumped and grinded, and making out and heading home with some guy.

Forget texts, it's a weak form of communication. Call her up very soon (she's not there long) suggest a date for a specific time and activity - if she rejects it and doesn't counter offer move on. You have nothing to lose.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Beware of girls that use "darling". They are playahs.
 
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For all of you knockin' text game:

http://blog.seandeacon.com/articles/text-game


By no means am I saying you should rely on texts, but it's an open venue.

Answer her "how are you" with something outrageous, or just ignore it and tell her to go out with you. (by phone or text)

tmpgstx said:
Beware of girls that use "darling". They are playahs.
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Yep, be careful
 
Poonani Maker

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Forget her. There are other fish.
 
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No don't forget her. You guys misunderstanding the situation.


She is from Russia (my home country). She's here for two weeks, she'll be going back soon. She wants a boyfriend in here. She'll do anything to get one. Call her, take her out, tap her. She's one of the easy girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont text her back, call her back and set a get together
 
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Stuntmann said:
No don't forget her. You guys misunderstanding the situation.


She is from Russia (my home country). She's here for two weeks, she'll be going back soon. She wants a boyfriend in here. She'll do anything to get one. Call her, take her out, tap her. She's one of the easy girls.
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That is why time is of the essence, my friend, and a text is not in order. Make that call.
 
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Stuntmann said:
No don't forget her. You guys misunderstanding the situation.


She is from Russia (my home country). She's here for two weeks, she'll be going back soon. She wants a boyfriend in here. She'll do anything to get one. Call her, take her out, tap her. She's one of the easy girls.
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agree....she should be eazzzy...just call her already...
 
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